“I turn down Black Men in street clothes or in suits” - @Honey Bee

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

We see the same patterns forming over & over again. Also a lot of BW online never keep the same energy when it comes to IR dating outrage. Tbh most BM don't care about BW & WM dating until they kept showing out with the c00nette shyt.

These patterns - what patterns are you referring to? Are you talking about the pattern of certain BW saying it's alright for them to date white men bc certain BM are pawging? No. I dont side with that. My position on that is people who say that, they date outside their own because they have an inherent desire to do so and they want to- all that bm do it, is just an excuse. If I see IR situations (bm and ww), hell no.. I don't think.. "oh, I gotta find me a white man; this BM has a ww. " ...

Because online/offline, I don't even give this type of self hate, swirling or IR shyt any time on both sides, BM and BW - I know that ALL white people are racists in their ways, idgaf how much they say they "understand" or try to "align" , down for causes... so I for damn sure am not associating with them, I dismiss anyone that thinks propping up white supremacy and white men/women, while degrading their own is justified under any circumstances. when shyt goes down, these dumb save a swirl bytches (bm and bw) think their cacs are going to have that back.. ??!!fuk no, they leave them in the dust and side with their own white counterparts. Now, they want to get back on black. I cant judge people but I do know the difference b/t right and wrong. What she said is dead wrong and highly offensive. I've always expressed my disapproval with interracial relationships, bucking and wenching, consistently and never diverted, both in here and real life- applies to both.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Just like when sisters start splaining when BW go after pig skins it's because they "tried so hard to find a good BM but its slim pickings"

Lol ard

@Nicole0416 see what I mean



Women don't care about that breh you ain't shyt & are easily disposable unless you have power and money.

False equivalence but

Point blank period. Yall should just ignore the "bedwenches" and "nikkas aint shyt" women since they dont want you. And same with the swirling women. You dont have to trash black people in order to date out.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

We see the same patterns forming over & over again. Also a lot of BW online never keep the same energy when it comes to IR dating outrage. Tbh most BM don't care about BW & WM dating until they kept showing out with the c00nette shyt.



@CinnaSlim why did you like that post?



We didn't "give her a platform". BW with this mindset are already given plenty of platforms by white men and white women to rant about how "trash" we are. This is a sensitive topic because many BM can relate to hearing this type of fukk shyt all the time directly/indirectly.

The OP actually gave her a platform and the attention she was seeking, by making this thread to begin with.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Women swear they're the last woman on Earth.



p*ssy does not begin or end with you. No one cares About living up to your unreasonable expectation with more than a billion other women to choose from

THIS

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

What kind of stupid goofy azz comment is this??

My goodness this was a dumb post

@CinnaSlim dapped it.
She also thinks intersectionality is real, so there's that.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

These patterns - what patterns are you referring to? Are you talking about the pattern of certain BW saying it's alright for them to date white men bc certain BM are pawging? No. I dont side with that. My position on that is people who say that, they date outside their own because they have an inherent desire to do so and they want to- all that bm do it, is just an excuse. If I see IR situations (bm and ww), hell no.. I don't think.. "oh, I gotta find me a white man; this BM has a ww. " ...

Because online/offline, I don't even give this type of self hate, swirling or IR shyt any time on both sides, BM and BW - I know that ALL white people are racists in their ways, idgaf how much they say they "understand" or try to "align" , down for causes... so I for damn sure am not associating with them, I dismiss anyone that thinks propping up white supremacy and white men/women, while degrading their own is justified under any circumstances. when shyt goes down, these dumb save a swirl bytches (bm and bw) think their cacs are going to have that back.. ??!!fuk no, they leave them in the dust and side with their own white counterparts. Now, they want to get back on black. I cant judge people but I do know the difference b/t right and wrong. What she said is dead wrong and highly offensive. I've always expressed my disapproval with interracial relationships, bucking and wenching, consistently and never diverted, both in here and real life- applies to both.

That's not what the pattern is, nor is BW "saying it's okay" a reaction to anything black men are doing, considering the facts:
The LOVING case was a WHITE MAN and his ("courted since age 11") Black (false native claiming) Bride...For not much reason considering there were minimal to zero physical consequences for WM/BW couplings, and those have been going on involuntarily and VOLUNTARILY (according to @Tiffrock ) since we were removed from Africa and bred on American Soil.
The only difference now is: Black men have higher MARRIAGE rates with white women.
You know what that means? White men and Black women date, but White men don't ASK THEM FOR THEIR HANDS IN MARRIAGE.
Remember, we're in a western country, and the man usually asks the woman to marry HER.
I've never praised white women or placed them above my own, nor have I indicated any preference toward them. Circumstance is circumstance.
HOWEVER...I've seen a PATTERN of black women having seminars, outreaches, trips, fiction novels, FB groups, Youtube channels, blue check twitter profiles, and mass media campaigns in regards to PROMOTION of out-dating.
Would you like to see evidence of this in comparison to BM/WW?
I also put "Interracial dating" in my Youtube search.
@King Sun said I'd find a whole bunch of grinning black men with white women.
I didn't see any of that on the 1st 3 pages of 88,000 results.
Would you like to see screenshots?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

If she doesn't look good then no fukks given

Putting up with this bullshyt because a chick looks good is textbook simpery

I can't believe yall are still talking about this stupid chick 3 days later

 

[CinnaSlim]

@CinnaSlim dapped it.
She also thinks intersectionality is real, so there's that.

So you cant be black and gay? Or black and female? Is it impossible to deal with both racism and sexism, or classism, ageism, ableism, colorism, etc?

That's all intersectionality is. Discrimination is discrimination but it affects each individual differently.

 

[xCivicx]

So you cant be black and gay? Or black and female? Is it impossible to deal with both racism and sexism, or classism, ageism, ableism, colorism, etc?

That's all intersectionality is. Discrimination is discrimination but it affects each individual differently.

Nah, intersectionality is "I think theres something other than my blackness that is causing issues in my life"

Yet old gay men run Hollywood/entertainment and old gay women run public opinion

So clearly being "gay" is not the issue you seem to think it is

Racism trumps ALL pseudi-intellectual ideas of what "oppression" is

 

[Serious]

So you cant be black and gay? Or black and female? Is it impossible to deal with both racism and sexism, or classism, ageism, ableism, colorism, etc?

That's all intersectionality is. Discrimination is discrimination but it affects each individual differently.

Intersectionality in theory references a universal concept that entails that oppression, marginalization, segregation and discrimination exist among various segments of the human population. The reality is every group is only looking out for their own interest. A blind eye so to speak is turned when the oppression of another group is being targeted. It's why a large number of hispanics and white women helped enable trump to win the election, despite his presidency not being in these groups best interests. It's why BLM, is mainly just black people on the front lines, with very little diversity. We're only 13-14% of the population, yet according to intersectionality, the coalition should be much more "diverse". Far too often blacks are used as puppets in the name of intersectionalism to do the dirty / ground work for other groups (see black twitter). Meanwhile other groups are largely all but silent when it's time to speak on injustices on our behalf. Remember silence is acceptance. The bigger picture is that while intersectionality entails that oppression is oppression and injustice has no color, race, gender, ethnicity, sexuality etc...Other marginalized groups arent doing their due diligence in regard to keeping up with the message. So black people need to wise about how they allocate their time and resources towards, other groups of people that aren't showing the same respect or interest.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Nah, intersectionality is "I think theres something other than my blackness that is causing issues in my life"

Yet old gay men run Hollywood/entertainment and old gay women run public opinion

So clearly being "gay" is not the issue you seem to think it is

Racism trumps ALL pseudi-intellectual ideas of what "oppression" is

Who are these old gays and are they the majority?

That's like saying since Obama was president and The Carters and Opran are billionaires that racism isnt that bad.

Intersectionality would be that the gay white men you are referring to still benefit from being white men. And just because certain things are more acceptable like homosexuality in entertainment, it doesnt discount how because they are still gay they get discriminated outside of those spaces. Believe it or not, queer still encounter discrimination in the entertainment field, just everything ain't perfect for blacks in the athletic field even though we dominate it.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Intersectionality in theory references a universal concept that entails that oppression, marginalization, segregation and discrimination exist among various segments of the human population. The reality is every group is only looking out for their own interest. A blind eye so to speak is turned when the oppression of another group being target. It's why a large number of hispanics and white women helped enable trump to win the election, despite his presidency not being in these groups best interests. It's why BLM, is mainly just black people on the front lines, with very little diversity. We're only 13-14% of the population, yet thanks according to intersectionality, the coalition should be much more "diverse". Far too often blacks are used as puppets in the name of intersectionalism to do the dirty / ground work for other groups (see black twitter). Meanwhile other groups are largely all but silent when it's time to speak on injustices on our behalf. The bigger picture is that while intersectionality entails that oppression is oppression and injustice has no color, race, gender, ethnicity, sexuality etc...Other marginalized groups arent doing their due diligence in regard to keeping up with the message. So black people need to wise about how they allocate their time and resources towards, other groups of people that aren't showing the same respect.

Um... Thank you for that definition.

But couldnt the same be said in regards to colorism, and dark skin black women who reel back their support of black men who do not support or actively disparage them?

Stephon Clark being a recent example.

 

[xCivicx]

Who are these old gays and are they the majority?

That's like saying since Obama was president and The Carters and Opran are billionaires that racism isnt that bad.

Intersectionality would be that the gay white men you are referring to still benefit from being white men. And just because certain things are more acceptable like homosexuality in entertainment, it doesnt discount how because they are still gay they get discriminated outside of those spaces. Believe it or not, queer still encounter discrimination in the entertainment field, just everything ain't perfect for blacks in the athletic field even though we dominate it.

THEIR population is irrelevant because they have enough money to dictate how they are portrayed

Theres a reason the term "The 1%" exists

 

[Serious]

Um... Thank you for that definition.

But couldnt the same be said in regards to colorism, and dark skin black women who reel back their support of black men who do not support or actively disparage them?

Stephon Clark being a recent example.

shyt I did. While what happened to him was fukked up, not cool, and a clear case of injustice because no one deserves to be shot in the back(despite not being the perfect victim). I can't rock with some cat who talking all that shyt about BW.

I treat that shyt the same way other races / groups do. While that individual case was fukked up and I'm not rocking with someone who subscribes to self hate.

I didnt give a fukk about XXX death either after he beat up his gf....


While it's unfortunate he was injustly slain over some bs, you're not going hear to much outcry from me in regard to a cat who beat up his gf.

 

[Big Daddy]

shyt I did. While what happened to him was fukked up, not cool, and a clear case of injustice because no one deserves to be shot in the back(despite not being the perfect victim). I can't rock with some cat who talking all that shyt about BW.

I treat that shyt the same way other races / groups do. While that individual case was fukked up and I'm not rocking with someone who subscribes to self hate.

I didnt give a fukk about XXX death either after he beat up his gf....


While it's unfortunate he was injustly slain over some bs, you're not going hear to much outcry from me in regard to a cat who beat up his gf.

I went full blast neg mode on that c00n when he got blasted, while acknowledging that it was still an injustice, and the coli like to had a fit
Ion fukk with NO c00ns, in life or after, fukk em. And he was an ULTIMATE c00n. Flamboyant and flagrant with his sh!t. No love for him.