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I didn’t want nikkas to clown me, sorry. :yeshrug:

Your advice was really good though and I appreciate it.

Breh I'm a realist, a pragmatist, and can be direct but if I have all information necessary, I'm never trying to be an a$$hole. Everytime I read posters in your circumstance (you're not alone) I kinda wish y'all were people I knew irl cause I would help. I know no one is entitled to anything, but it ain't right to walk around scared of talking to people, but I know these things can stem from trauma, or start out small and grow over time untreated.

If I may ask, is ya pops in ya life? No clowning/roasting I just want a perspective of the male influence in your life.
 

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Breh I'm a realist, a pragmatist, and can be direct but if I have all information necessary, I'm never trying to be an a$$hole. Everytime I read posters in your circumstance (you're not alone) I kinda wish y'all were people I knew irl cause I would help. I know no one is entitled to anything, but it ain't right to walk around scared of talking to people, but I know these things can stem from trauma, or start out small and grow over time untreated.

If I may ask, is ya pops in ya life? No clowning/roasting I just want a perspective of the male influence in your life.

My father was abusive to me and I haven’t spoken to him in 4 years. I didn’t have anyone to help me in regards to attracting women at all. My older cousin do very well with girls but he barely want’s to help me.
 

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My father was abusive to me and I haven’t spoken to him in 4 years. I didn’t have anyone to help me in regards to attracting women at all. My older cousin do very well with girls but he barely want’s to help me.

I'm sorry you went through that breh, I don't know if you can find a mentor/life coach locally. But I truly believe that being done after getting some therapy would be the quickest way for you to get to a better place in your life. Feel free to hit the PMs and be blessed breh. At the end of the day all you have is yourself so strive for self improvement, seek peace of mind, and hold yourself down. Society is trending towards shyt so don't let it's simplistic ass goals/standards cloud the way you view yourself.
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I'm sorry you went through that breh, I don't know if you can find a mentor/life coach locally. But I truly believe that being done after getting some therapy would be the quickest way for you to get to a better place in your life. Feel free to hit the PMs and be blessed breh. At the end of the day all you have is yourself so strive for self improvement, seek peace of mind, and hold yourself down. Society is trending towards shyt so don't let it's simplistic ass goals/standards cloud the way you view yourself.
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Thanks man, I appreciate the advice you are giving.
 

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@JadeB @Son_Of_God You should take a look at the first pages of the gems on women thread. Ir's stickied. Look at the very first pages.


Don't you have friends or family that can put you around females?

Edit : I see

All of my friends are in relationships and I have no family members who can help me except for my cousin but we are somewhat distant.
 

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Breh I'm a realist, a pragmatist, and can be direct but if I have all information necessary, I'm never trying to be an a$$hole. Everytime I read posters in your circumstance (you're not alone) I kinda wish y'all were people I knew irl cause I would help. I know no one is entitled to anything, but it ain't right to walk around scared of talking to people, but I know these things can stem from trauma, or start out small and grow over time untreated.

If I may ask, is ya pops in ya life? No clowning/roasting I just want a perspective of the male influence in your life.
My father was a Nigerian pastor who thought talking to women without the intention to marry was the work of the Devil. That Christian programming screwed me up personally:snoop:
 
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