I think im gonna cheat on him for my birthday

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Some of you may already know of my relationship woes
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Here's a little clarity for you

fukkin leads to a lot of emotion

Emotions are not going to help you solve the problem with this nikka that clearly doesn't respect you

Respect yourself enough to know that a good joog is not going to magically make your life better

I'm sure it's more complicated than you're telling us

But I think a valid question is....if ur ex is so great why won't u just leave the worthless nikka for cuh:yeshrug:

cuz her current dude treats her like shyt and she doesn't wanna give it up. he aint shyt so why would a woman dump a man with such attractive qualities and leave him to these thirsty hoes for some used up emotional tampon nikka she already broke up with? She's already winning why go in reverse

naw it's better to lead your ex on with sex as a passive aggressive secret fukk you to the current man before she goes back to cook him dinner, get beat on, watch his kids, get cheated on and wash his drawls.

I wonder if women are this conflicted when they dump a dude for being too nice/ not exciting enough/not having enough money :coffee:

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Why not be a proper thot and let the closest coli nikkas run a train on you...and let them record it and post on JBO...since you like telling us your business...


Halfway thots disgust me...:scust:
 

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Some of you may already know of my relationship woes but dammit I need some excitement in my life.im about to be 23 feeling and living like an old ass lady whos best years are behind them.

23 is hardly old..also, if you wanted excitement you should've stayed single and childless instead of trying to turn a shack into a house for a man who clearly isn't into the "family man" role.

i let this nikka suck the life outta me.ive been faithful the whole time we been together but that shyt aint got me nowhere.im still being treated like an option or sideline thot.i almost never ask the man for shyt,i got my own money,raising our son to my best abilities,cook and clean after a long busy day at work,give him sex whenever he wants,babysit his bad ass daughter all the time.im not out here always running the streets,partying,leaving my baby wit any n everybody.

Who fault is that? A carpet is there for walking on..either you stop being passive and do your own thing or shut the hell up. You have your own money and can support yourself? Why are you in that situation again?

Ive been to good to this man even with the basic lackluster sex,not eating my p*ssy right or at all(havent came from head in 3yrs,he dont even try)....not wanting to go out and do anything..dinner,movie..nothing.being stingy and tight with his money,getting attitudes if i do ask ..when i barely ask for anything.

Key sentence right here.

The lack of communication and understanding creating unnecessary agruments all the time...physical violence

I feel as though he dont respect or value me as his woman.like im not good enough and hes said this a couple times.its crazy because i should feel like that because i do all the things a woman should do for their man,household and family but he treat me like hes settling and putting up with me.his personality aint shyt and hes always negative ass hell.if he dont have somebody on the side he sure as hell act like it but i swear i wouldn't give a fukk at this point. just give me more reason to do what i want to.im all for an open relationship now .do you and protect yourself

Have you actually talked about your issues with him directly instead of venting to an online crowd of strangers? If so, again, why continue to put you and him through further angst with this bullshyt? People actually get killed for doing dumbshyt like you're considering.

Ima go fukk my ex this weekend.he made me feel good in more ways than one.we have a bond and connection that i dont have with my man.they got completely opposite personality.thats why i still talk to him to this day.we dont have sex but them convos be everyrhing.i miss being to talk to my man about anything no matter what topic.i can be feeling so down and out and he'll make me feel better.that a$$hole will make me feel even worse

Why is your ex your ex then if that's the case? fukk it. Again, dumb shyt like this is why people get killed in relationships. Cut your current dude off and go back to your ex, which is hilarity because again..your ex was an ex for a reason.

Dude is way to secretive and evasive.he not comfortable enough to talk about shyt.thats why we never got to know each other on a deeper level.i been knew we are not meant for each other but i keep tryna make it work.

I know this a trainwreck and im working on leaving for good but for now..i feel like i deserve to feel special.its my birthday and i havent had a good time in a long time and i know who will pull out all the stops to make sure i have a ball and its not the man who ive been faithful to all this time.im fina make him mines for the weekend and hes gonna give me everything i been missing

I need this yall.dont judge me

You basically had a child with a man you can't relate or even talk to, eh? This whole thread is just silly...I'm done.
 

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Didn't read all that shyt
If u not a troll, if you're that damn miserable in your relationship then leave, you're only 23

If you are a troll congrats on your platinum thread :lolbron:
 

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cuz her current dude treats her like shyt and she doesn't wanna give it up. he aint shyt so why would a woman dump a man with such attractive qualities and leave him to these thirsty hoes for some used up emotional tampon nikka she already broke up with? She's already winning why go in reverse

naw it's better to lead your ex on with sex as a passive aggressive secret fukk you to the current man before she goes back to cook him dinner, get beat on, watch his kids, get cheated on and wash his drawls.

I wonder if women are this conflicted when they dump a dude for being too nice/ not exciting enough/not having enough money :coffee:

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Stopped reading at 23 and feel like an ol lady who's best years are behind. Just leave don't cheat.

These hoes aint loyal:francis:
 
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