You gotta get ya numbers up... Meaning you gotta blow a lotta backs out before you start genuinely not givin a fk
I really can't wait to stop giving a fukk about bytches
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Heafcliffe
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@Uitomy let me give you a little knowledge, older nikkas don't stop caring about females. They just know how to temper their emotions and/or have circumstances that may distract (i.e. job, children, shyt even a wife, etc.). The irony is this "tempering" gives off an aura of "zilch fukks" which can bring more females. Yes, a conundrum indeed.
My 2 pennies...
My 2 pennies...
mortuus est
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BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
Smh so basically you out here treating average women who haven't done you shyt bad...
And people you think are top notch good because of their looks?
Simp on and I hope you get hurt in the process till you learn how to treat people accordingly.
If you don't like the average, leave them alone and only aim high. No reason to be fronting on them then complaining about the women you want fronting on YOU.
And people you think are top notch good because of their looks?
Simp on and I hope you get hurt in the process till you learn how to treat people accordingly.
If you don't like the average, leave them alone and only aim high. No reason to be fronting on them then complaining about the women you want fronting on YOU.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
fukk all types of women breh, fat, ugly, beautiful, tall, with each woman you fukk the more you learn how to handle women and be confident with women
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
Now before you go
This is what I mean
I've realized that I'm pretty much one of those guys that switches from simp to #hoh frequently cause my youth got my hormones at an all time high at 21
I pretty much tease and lightly fukk around with anything from a 6-7 with out caring (lack of texts and call backs, never coming through with promises, having a lack of interest beyond sex) but an 8 and up will damn near have me feelings like I'll do anything for the bytch initially to get in her pants then I just wanna keep her
And I realized after a recent trip to Atlanta that I absolutely hate being so sexually poignant man, I really can't wait to be like you older nikkas that can just zone any bytch off and focus on yourself so I wanted to ask some pointers from y'all how to do that early at my age
Like how can I discipline myself to, well not put women on a pedalstal per day, but, keep myself in check when dealing with them,
breh just realize that YOU are the prize....women NEED you not the other way around...then your eyes will open
despite all that independent shyt...they all want a man....pay no attention to that white boy shyt....the vast majority want a strong successful brother on their arm....
get your career together....and you can literally have your pick.....
now the thing is....this takes time....you probably wont be here until your 30s....in their 20s women are at the top of the powers as far as beauty goes....money and success trumps beauty though breh....be strong
Hard Times Nakamura
Banned
Breh you are fighting a losing battle...for now.
I just turned 30 and I'm finally reaching a point where my pre-frontal cortex can control my dikk somewhat. Bear in mind the male brain doesn't fully mature until about age 25.
Anyone who says different has low testosterone levels.
I just turned 30 and I'm finally reaching a point where my pre-frontal cortex can control my dikk somewhat. Bear in mind the male brain doesn't fully mature until about age 25.
Anyone who says different has low testosterone levels.
PhonZhi
Veteran
Picture em wit shyt stains in they draws
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
I'm not a man I can't tell you how to discipline yourself as far as sexual urges. I have no idea how you feel.
But what I stated above is simple. Stop treating so call average women bad because you don't want them. Nobody made you talk to them.
As you get older you'll realize what being shallow gets you.
That's not to say you shouldn't get with what you find attractive, just realize there's a fine line.
Good luck.
HellRell804
Banned
I think you're being overly emotional. It's just guy talk. The fact of the matter is, treating the good looking ones so well is causing him to lose them. The natural "IDGAF" instinct shown to average/ below average women causes them to flock. He's just trying to develop that same mindset for attractive women so he can have more success with them.
Don't get all caught up on average/ bad whatever, it's a sliding scale. One man's dime is another man's 5.
Hello fellow Libran
You're already aware of what type of chick/behaviors trigger your inner simp (I hate this doggone word
, btw) and inner HOH (this is also very dumb imo - every woman isn't a 'hoe' and there's no need to be 'hard on hoes' if they're supposedly easy/conniving/whatever-fillintheblank-behaviour-that-constitutes-being-a-hoe. Would you take candy from a baby?). So, instead of trying to readjust in the midst of things and overcompensating by withdrawing -
Entertain those who entertain you:
When you decide to pursue outside of this basic rule then get honest & realistic with yourself about your motives, what you really want/how you are going to get it & how equipped you are to deal with the obstacles WITHOUT going to either extreme.
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
Not emotional about it.
Maybe I've misunderstood all along.
I just have no sympathy for anyone who treats someone bad off looks. They don't deserve that. You didn't have to deal with them from jump street.
HellRell804
Banned
I mean, unless a woman is off the charts not up to a man's standards he's still gonna hit. But if she's not somewhere in that 7-10 range he's not going to care whether she stays or goes. For some reason, this attitude is insanely attractive to women. On the flip side, until you break out of your programming, you're going to care about that 7-10 a lot. What she thinks of you, what you're doing right or wrong, did I offend her?. To the point where your natural confidence and charisma are gone. Thus placating attitude has the unfortunate effect of making women Sahara desert dry. It's a catch 22
Got a couple options:
A) Get so good at game or approaching 8-10/10's that they don't even phase you.
B) make a heavy time investment in a side venture whether it be some business or learning a skill.
C) explore your identity: meditate and really think about who you are. What are your strengths? What are you lacking? Those are the sorry if questions you ask yourself. EVERYDAY.
And lastly if you want to develop willpower you can literally sit down in a chair and do nothing for two or three hours.
A) Get so good at game or approaching 8-10/10's that they don't even phase you.
B) make a heavy time investment in a side venture whether it be some business or learning a skill.
C) explore your identity: meditate and really think about who you are. What are your strengths? What are you lacking? Those are the sorry if questions you ask yourself. EVERYDAY.
And lastly if you want to develop willpower you can literally sit down in a chair and do nothing for two or three hours.