If you're being serious, how do you feel your financial situation is a good one? From the outside it seems like you're being paid. You're not married so bills should ideally be split down the middle. You really shouldn't be footing it all. Ya'll been together nearly 10 years, what do you financially have to show for it?a roommate?
gtfoh
I pay for all the bills, but my girl makes more money.
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Colilluminati said:a roommate?
gtfoh
Hate to tell you, but that's ALL you are.
I've (and other dudes) have fukked a ton of married/engaged chicks who were in the position ur girl is in.
It might seem all good - but she doesn't want this. She wants you to direct shyt a lil more.
NTM, a man really should be taking care of the family in most ways.
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separate accounts for us.
i pay rent, lights, water, gas and car insurance. and my personal bills.
she pays her personal bills, kids expenses, groceries, cell phones, and cable. and she saves too.
both of us make good money, so ether way we
good, 
good, live good...
i pay rent, lights, water, gas and car insurance. and my personal bills.
she pays her personal bills, kids expenses, groceries, cell phones, and cable. and she saves too.
both of us make good money, so ether way we
good, good, live good...
You're trolling. You've got to be.Kevin Durants and Air Max 1's
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I doubt he is. My friend paid all the bills while his girl finished nursing school. She makes like 30 dollars an hour now and still doesn't pay one bill in the house.
These types of women are probably getting outside dikk from the guys who don't pay for shyt
It won't be long before she hits him with the "you're not man enough" speech
Real talk breh.I'm being honest.The only bill she pays is cellphones and her health insurance.
It doesn't bother me much because she take care of the kids.Its not like she making a thousand more then me every check.Not even close.She prolly gets me by like $150 bucks.She saves and gets shyt done that I over look.I took it upon myself to do this so I ain't mad.Its just when I tell her I seen this 50 inch vizio for $400 and she looks at me and says you got it
I get a little tight.
you're getting pimped breh
you won't be able to flip the script out of the blue just like that especially since y'all been together for 10 years. What you need to do is first figure out if you're happy as it is. You made this thread, cool. But how do you want things to be in the future? See might be getting pimped but still be happy with this arrangement and that's cool too. Can't force you to choose the red pill. some people prefer blue. You need to be real with yourself.
If you want things to change, understand you can only change your actions within all of this. Two ways to go about this. You can either win back your manhood inch by inch (this will take you at least a few years to win back since you've been digging your own hole for years already). The other option is as Dante (Black Phillip Show) would say, "toss the chessboard in the air mid-game and start over". What that means is, you basically go hard and be ready to destroy everything. You will meet a lot of resistance with this one and understandably so. She will resent you for try to change something 10 years in the making overnight. She will protect the foundation fiercely and you will probably lose her but you have to be ready for that L if you're not currently happy.
you won't be able to flip the script out of the blue just like that especially since y'all been together for 10 years. What you need to do is first figure out if you're happy as it is. You made this thread, cool. But how do you want things to be in the future? See might be getting pimped but still be happy with this arrangement and that's cool too. Can't force you to choose the red pill. some people prefer blue. You need to be real with yourself.
If you want things to change, understand you can only change your actions within all of this. Two ways to go about this. You can either win back your manhood inch by inch (this will take you at least a few years to win back since you've been digging your own hole for years already). The other option is as Dante (Black Phillip Show) would say, "toss the chessboard in the air mid-game and start over". What that means is, you basically go hard and be ready to destroy everything. You will meet a lot of resistance with this one and understandably so. She will resent you for try to change something 10 years in the making overnight. She will protect the foundation fiercely and you will probably lose her but you have to be ready for that L if you're not currently happy.
Do you have money left over after paying the bills? If not, start splitting the bills 50/50 then, including the costs for the children (assuming they are yours). Ya'll aren't married and you have the right to do that. It makes no sense for a grown man to have to ask his girl to buy him something, especially if you're holding her down.Real talk breh.I'm being honest.The only bill she pays is cellphones and her health insurance.
I haven't been paying all the bills for 10 years.More like 10 months.
Yes I do.I waste a lot of my check.That's why I started paying for everything.All my money was going to clothes,weed and eating out.I only save a little.
how did it start?
Well then no wonder she's behaving that way. You suck with money and she's not trying to be apart of that. I don't blame her.