"i only friend zoned you because you're too perfect"

[thewarrior05]

Both genders have their own struggles, and gender has nothing to do with my posts, so stop. Anyone can be weak.

No matter what you type, changing yourself to fit in is the action of a weak person. Weak in character, weakminded, emotionally weak.. It's weak.

A confident person who is sure and secure in themselves wouldn't be trying to change bc one person said they weren't attracted to them.

It is clear that you are a weak one since you are in here trying to argue that there is nothing wrong with it.

You can leave now

See that's how I know your mentally weak because I never name called u........ But u felt the need to call me weak because u know your arquement is bullshyt. Lol but I love it because u just played urself now. From the beginning of time women have been the weaker sex and there is no problem with that but don't ever tell a man what is or isn't because your not about that life nor do you have the tools to be about this life from our conversation. So you have a wonderful day and PS don't ever tell me when I can leave cause you don't run shyt but your mouth.

 

[The Oracle]

Sad that you would try to change your personality because 1 woman that you wanted wasn't attracted to it.

That shows how weak you are.

you misunderstand what i am saying. i am not saying he should change who he is, i am saying his "too perfect" act is NOT who he is, and he should stop doing that.

men who are described as too "nice" or too perfect are more often than not, NOT being themselves. our true selves are not afraid of expressing our sexuality or our desires. they are suppressing that aspect of themselves in a misguided attempt at being "respectful" or separating themselves from other men/suitors.

alot of guys don't know where the line is between being rude and being flirtatious so they play it safe by doing NEITHER. this makes women put them in the category of too nice or having no appeal.

 

[SheWantTheD]

You right I'm in that situation right now
It sucks cause I want her so bad but I'm just not her kind of nikka at the moment so
But I don't think we should be so hard on people for simping romantic feelings are already complicated when a person doesn't like you they get harder to deal with

LMAO you a real simp nikka. If she's thotting around, why the fukk would you want her?!

 

[Uitomy]

LMAO you a real simp nikka. If she's thotting around, why the fukk would you want her?!

nikka I had to find out I'm not in high school anymore I don't have people giving me the details on who she is and really fukk around with, duh,

 

[SheWantTheD]

Ive had bytches tell me their true past over the years with that approach that Im at the point now where I literally feel like 7 out of 10 bytches (maybe even more) have most of these qualities/experiences or atleast one of them

1.15-20+ bodies
2. Been in an abusive relationship (physical, verbal or emotional
3. Been cheated in every or most relationships
4.Been raped/sexually assaulted (or claimed rape)
5.Does webcam
6.Cheated on multiple boyfriends (dudes in the friendzone was always a favorite)
7.Attempted suicide

Not all of those at once, but some of those (i never met one with all of these but gotdam), especially 1-4 is common

Mind you these aint ur obvious thots walking around with cheeta print and bullnose rings


These are ur everyday girls. 9-5, school then work type broads. Alot of these bytches are traumatized, destroyed and ruined and so used to being dogged out that when a good nikka come around they ruin him or cheat on , thus turning that nikka from Urkel to Ike Turner over night.


Feel sorry for em, but dont try to save them or ull end up fukked up urself.I learned my lesson doing this once & i came out pretty unscathed thankfully. Just use em for what they offer (vagina) then turn the stove off before it burns u.

This why you gotta find a chick who was raised by two parents with a great, loving, positive relationship.

And their mothers can't be attention whores or former thotties either.

 

[SheWantTheD]

nikka I had to find out I'm not in high school anymore I don't have people giving me the details on who she is and really fukk around with, duh,

You right I'm in that situation right now
It sucks cause I want her so bad but I'm just not her kind of nikka at the moment so
But I don't think we should be so hard on people for simping romantic feelings are already complicated when a person doesn't like you they get harder to deal with

Then what is with this comment? You said you want her so bad.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Ive had bytches tell me their true past over the years with that approach that Im at the point now where I literally feel like 7 out of 10 bytches (maybe even more) have most of these qualities/experiences or atleast one of them

1.15-20+ bodies
2. Been in an abusive relationship (physical, verbal or emotional
3. Been cheated in every or most relationships
4.Been raped/sexually assaulted (or claimed rape)
5.Does webcam
6.Cheated on multiple boyfriends (dudes in the friendzone was always a favorite)
7.Attempted suicide

Not all of those at once, but some of those (i never met one with all of these but gotdam), especially 1-4 is common

Mind you these aint ur obvious thots walking around with cheeta print and bullnose rings


These are ur everyday girls. 9-5, school then work type broads. Alot of these bytches are traumatized, destroyed and ruined and so used to being dogged out that when a good nikka come around they ruin him or cheat on , thus turning that nikka from Urkel to Ike Turner over night.


Feel sorry for em, but dont try to save them or ull end up fukked up urself.I learned my lesson doing this once & i came out pretty unscathed thankfully. Just use em for what they offer (vagina) then turn the stove off before it burns u.

A lotta them that claim rape don't know what rape is. Like they didn't want to have sex with a dude but they didn't wanna get raped so they didn't tell him no or to stop.

That's not rape. You let dude have sex with you and didn't say or do anything.

No way in hell 7 out of 10 women have been raped.

 

[Uitomy]

Then what is with this comment? You said you want her so bad.

Well now I wanted, I made that comment in the past, now I don't want her, I have the Kanye shrug so i stated I just moved forward anyway

 

[At30wecashout]

Sad that you would try to change your personality because 1 woman that you wanted wasn't attracted to it.

That shows how weak you are.

This is not entirely true. Sometimes there are patterns we notice in our interactions with women, and we really don't do the self reflection until it is one we really like.

The same reason I was not getting female attention was prevalent until one girl gave me a reality check, in which case I had to find what I was doing wrong.

Surprise, I was being too forward without even letting women get to know me. It was not isolated to one woman, it was just one woman caused me to look at how

I was acting. Every man should take EVERY opportunity to check himself and see if he trippin' or not, cause sometimes we do too much or too little.

 

[At30wecashout]

you misunderstand what i am saying. i am not saying he should change who he is, i am saying his "too perfect" act is NOT who he is, and he should stop doing that.

men who are described as too "nice" or too perfect are more often than not, NOT being themselves. our true selves are not afraid of expressing our sexuality or our desires. they are suppressing that aspect of themselves in a misguided attempt at being "respectful" or separating themselves from other men/suitors.

alot of guys don't know where the line is between being rude and being flirtatious so they play it safe by doing NEITHER. this makes women put them in the category of too nice or having no appeal.

She might not get that, my man. Remember, in love and dating, men have to do WAY more introspection and trial-and-error than women cause we have to do the bulk of initiating and approaching.

If a guy doesn't like a woman, she can call him gay and be done with it, cause another man WILL come around. Us dudes don't have that luxury

Women are essentially anteaters, while men are ice fisherman. Find an anthill and drop some food, there will be no shortage of ants she can feast on. It isn't even

hard for them. Us fisherman? We have to work and work and work for every catch. No breaks. They will never understand that part of the game.

 

[Farrinto]

"until the time is right" = after she's done getting ran through by all kinds of thugs and lowlifes and is now finally ready to settle down with a "good man". :Drakensberg:

If I wasn't good enough for you in your prime then you're not good enough for me when you're

 

[The Oracle]

She might not get that, my man. Remember, in love and dating, men have to do WAY more introspection and trial-and-error than women cause we have to do the bulk of initiating and approaching.

If a guy doesn't like a woman, she can call him gay and be done with it, cause another man WILL come around. Us dudes don't have that luxury

Women are essentially anteaters, while men are ice fisherman. Find an anthill and drop some food, there will be no shortage of ants she can feast on. It isn't even

hard for them. Us fisherman? We have to work and work and work for every catch. No breaks. They will never understand that part of the game.

yes, men do more work before sex, but not AFTER, and definitely not more in the long run.

haven't you noticed the huge power shift that occurs after you've slept with a woman? suddenly she is proving herself to you, vying for your attention as opposed to the other way around.

women may not have trouble getting men the way some men have trouble getting women, but they damn sure have trouble keeping them around after. and since that AFTER is what they really care about (love and commitment), i would say their struggle is at least equal to ours, if not greater.

 

[At30wecashout]

yes, men do more work before sex, but not AFTER, and definitely not more in the long run.

haven't you noticed the huge power shift that occurs after you've slept with a woman? suddenly she is proving herself to you, vying for your attention as opposed to the other way around.

women may not have trouble getting men the way some men have trouble getting women, but they damn sure have trouble keeping them around after. and since that AFTER is what they really care about (love and commitment), i would say their struggle is at least equal to ours, if not greater.

I have noticed that power shift just after a number of dates. But yes, sex always changed things greatly but in one instance. Either way, my bottom line was if we are

talking simply having options to wade through, whether they are good options or not is another discussion, women typically have them in abundance, and men don't. Obviously if your

game is tight things get better quickly as a man, but you still don't have women generally coming to you trying to convince you to give them the time of day. I say generally cause I do

get it now, which I never would have dreamed of back in the day.

Anyway, as for their struggle, I agree. The issue lies in the fact that within those struggles, women pretend we don't do all the heavy lifting to even get something popping in the first place,

which doesn't start or stop at how you speak to a woman, but how she feels that day, whether or not I as a man am dressed right, do I have anything to talk about with her, etc.

For most men, at least early on, getting a woman (one who isn't and/or in the face) requires self-improvement independent of the actual pursuit. You can't sit on your ass

all day and chase women at night, at least not the good ones. A woman can do nothing and someone will come. Just the way it is.

 

[The Oracle]

That text was from one woman, not many.

The text did not mention him lacking boldness and being a pushover. She just said he was too "perfect". More than likely meaning stable and drama free. That is not a character flaw. If she sees that as boring, then that is on her. There are lots of women who are attracted to stable and drama free or "perfect", and there are some who prefer other things. He just needs to find someone who is more like him.

Everyone is not going to like you. Every woman does not like the same thing. If someone doesn't like you, find someone else who does. You don't change your personality so that a person can like you. That is weak.

I see a lot of you guys are weak on here.


I could never be with a male who is weak like that, changing himself to fit in.

Be your own man, think for yourself.

think about how you would feel if you were interested in a man, and he told you, that you were too perfect for him. would you accept that at face value, or would your BULLshyt alarm be going off?

the real reason is more likely that he just doesn't find you that attractive, and he is being nice about it. so why is it any different with the genders reversed?

 

[The Oracle]

I have noticed that power shift just after a number of dates. But yes, sex always changed things greatly but in one instance. Either way, my bottom line was if we are

talking simply having options to wade through, whether they are good options or not is another discussion, women typically have them in abundance, and men don't. Obviously if your

game is tight things get better quickly as a man, but you still don't have women generally coming to you trying to convince you to give them the time of day. I say generally cause I do

get it now, which I never would have dreamed of back in the day.

Anyway, as for their struggle, I agree. The issue lies in the fact that within those struggles, women pretend we don't do all the heavy lifting to even get something popping in the first place,

which doesn't start or stop at how you speak to a woman, but how she feels that day, whether or not I as a man am dressed right, do I have anything to talk about with her, etc.

For most men, at least early on, getting a woman (one who isn't and/or in the face) requires self-improvement independent of the actual pursuit. You can't sit on your ass

all day and chase women at night, at least not the good ones. A woman can do nothing and someone will come. Just the way it is.

i dunno.

i haven't gotten this impression from women. they seem to appreciate and know the amount of effort i put into keeping myself in shape and presenting myself well, and taking care of business at work.

some men think that because they have to approach the woman, that this is a burden. but from my perspective, it looks like a privilege.

women are like the flowers in the garden, waiting for someone to come pick them. i'd say that puts us in a very powerful position. our dating options are limitless, theirs are limited to who pursues them.

and yes, some women go long periods without getting picked by anyone