yupI dont see anything wrong with this mindset. Maybe if more BW thought like this, there would be less fatherless children.
Or saying no.Dont blame her. Love will make you do some crazy things like cosigning shyt your spouse ask for cause they can't do it alone. Best to avoid that situation by mating right.
My husband and I exchanged credit reports before we got engaged. It's a big deal. Love does NOT pay bills.