I Need Some Advice: How do women like to be approached?

[Guvnor]

Hello Ladies And Maybe Gentleman Too,
I was wondering how do ladies like to be approached. I am honestly terrible when it comes to this and usually only go talk to a woman if she is giving me that eye. The reason being for this is because than I know she is feeling me and I won't get shot down due to the fact she probably thinks I'm handsome and is feeling the kid, nah mean. However even when I have my first conversation I try to play it smooth and end up being a lil awkward but funny awkward. It's rare I ever approached a lady in a flirtatious way who didn't give me that eye or I didn't have a conversation with prior too and was sure she liked me. I do this because I know women say they don't like to be cat called.

However I know not all women are confident enough to look at a man they may like and to wink or to show interest in that kind of way either. With that said, I'm aware their may be a whole lot of women out there who I could potentially date but I have not due to me not being sure how to approach them, and them not showing the interest first.

With that said, ladies how do you like to be approached by men? Also what are some things you do to let a man know your interested?

I asked the second question because I'm not always good at reading women lol.

Thank you for your time!

 

[VFib]

Every woman is different.

With that said, if you approach me with some line, you'll be disqualified. I'll just see you as someone who is running game and I'm not interested. Just be yourself. We will either click or we won't. It's OK if we don't.

Don't be extra. Own who you are. This older guy started talking to me one night and told me he worked a "low level" job. He then proceeded to spend half an hour trying to convince me that he was smart, despite his position. What a turn off.

Texting: If you purposefully misspell simple words, I can't take you seriously as a grown man. Ex. "What" is not spelled ""wat". If you spell it this way, I can't take you seriously.

How do I show interest? I don't unless I know the person. I'm not good at flirting or eye fukking so I don't bother. I figure, if he is interested and felt I was worth the chance, then he'll approach. If he doesn't, then he wasn't THAT interested.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Bruh come to the men gem thread in TLR

 

[Guvnor]

Every woman is different.

With that said, if you approach me with some line, you'll be disqualified. I'll just see you as someone who is running game and I'm not interested. Just be yourself. We will either click or we won't. It's OK if we don't.

Don't be extra. Own who you are. This older guy started talking to me one night and told me he worked a "low level" job. He then proceeded to spend half an hour trying to convince me that he was smart, despite his position. What a turn off.

Texting: If you purposefully misspell simple words, I can't take you seriously as a grown man. Ex. "What" is not spelled ""wat". If you spell it this way, I can't take you seriously.

How do I show interest? I don't unless I know the person. I'm not good at flirting or eye fukking so I don't bother. I figure, if he is interested and felt I was worth the chance, then he'll approach. If he doesn't, then he wasn't THAT interested.

Lol he can't be smart with a low level job?

Also damn, women really care about how a man spells? Never knew that but your right, I guess as cliche as it sounds it's best to just be myself even if it's awkward talking at first lol.

Thanks for sharing.

Bruh come to the men gem thread in TLR

Will do, I'll check it out.

 

[VFib]

Lol he can't be smart with a low level job?

Also damn, women really care about how a man spells? Never knew that but your right, I guess as cliche as it sounds it's best to just be myself even if it's awkward talking at first lol.

Thanks for sharing.


Will do, I'll check it out.

I didn't care about his job. He did, which is why he felt the need to prove how smart he was. "People think that just because I'm a ..... that I'm not intelligent. Well I am. I can...[insert the rest of the rant here]"

It was past midnight. All I wanted to do was get home and go to bed.

Again, all women are different. I cringe when I get a text from a grown adult and it looks like they went out of their way to sound like a teenager. That's just me.

 

[Guvnor]

I didn't care about his job. He did, which is why he felt the need to prove how smart he was. "People think that just because I'm a ..... that I'm not intelligent. Well I am. I can...[insert the rest of the rant here]"

It was past midnight. All I wanted to do was get home and go to bed.

Oh yeah, that's OD. Now I can see how that would be a turn off for you lol.

Again, all women are different. I cringe when I get a text from a grown adult and it looks like they went out of their way to sound like a teenager. That's just me.

Lol understood.

 

[StickStickly]

use humor, don't take yourself too seriously.

 

[Guvnor]

use humor, don't take yourself too seriously.

Thanks for the advice though it's easier said than done Especially when it's a woman I never spoke to before lol.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Don't be full of shyt.

Unless you're really good looking or rich. In which case she might call it "cheeky" and make excuses.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Be confident and easy going. Sometimes men try too hard to be funny and that can be annoying. If shes walking and you're driving, park. Dont approach if she's busy, like working out. The best conversation starts by commenting on what she's doing. I saw a guy at the post office start convo with a lady who was trying to get her box ready to mail out. He told her there's a better way to tape the box, then he held her box down while she followed his instructions with the tape. I was at the counter but they talked til I left.

 

[mortuus est]

I figure, if he is interested and felt I was worth the chance, then he'll approach. If he doesn't, then he wasn't THAT interested.

 

[Guvnor]

Be confident and easy going. Sometimes men try too hard to be funny and that can be annoying. If shes walking and you're driving, park. Dont approach if she's busy, like working out. The best conversation starts by commenting on what she's doing. I saw a guy at the post office start convo with a lady who was trying to get her box ready to mail out. He told her there's a better way to tape the box, then he held her box down while she followed his instructions with the tape. I was at the counter but they talked til I left.

Thank you for that advice, makes a lot of sense too because that way you don't need an ice breaker or line and the conversation is more genuine

You're brilliant

 

[Guvnor]

I think it's time I bring this topic back up.

Any more woman want to chime in? I know woman don't like to be cat called on the street or approached and sometimes feel intimidated by that, add to that that we are in the Me Too era so I want to be as respectful as possible. I mean it's to the point where I would even look away if I see a sexy woman approaching for fear of disrespecting sometimes or looking at her too much.

With that said, what is the best way or correct way to do this?

 

[Selena]

Me personally, I like to be approached respectfully. Meaning, you talk to me like I'm a human being. And if you're wanting to ask me out or get my number, have a conversation with me first instead of some lame, quick pick-up line. Like someone above said, comment on what she's doing. Start there. Also, if she's wearing clothes with a sports team logo, start & comment on that (Oh so you're a ___ fan?)

We can smell game a mile away and it's a huge turnoff (at least for me). Approaching women really isn't that hard lol. Just be genuine in your approach and not some lame, thirsty creep & you should be alright.

When I'm interested in a guy, I think it's a bit obvious. I usually smile hard AF (unintentionally) and laugh at most of the jokes he says. When I'm really interested and am feeling him, I get touchy feely, like touch his arm or shoulder. I also eyeflirt/eyefukk a lot too (mostly when he's not looking) and if he catches me, I just smile. So yeah if she's staring/glancing at you multiple times, you more than likely shot lol. Good luck, breh.

 

[❤Aԃɾιαɳα Rσȥαყ ❤]

Every woman is different.

With that said, if you approach me with some line, you'll be disqualified. I'll just see you as someone who is running game and I'm not interested. Just be yourself. We will either click or we won't. It's OK if we don't.

Don't be extra. Own who you are. This older guy started talking to me one night and told me he worked a "low level" job. He then proceeded to spend half an hour trying to convince me that he was smart, despite his position. What a turn off.

Texting: If you purposefully misspell simple words, I can't take you seriously as a grown man. Ex. "What" is not spelled ""wat". If you spell it this way, I can't take you seriously.

How do I show interest? I don't unless I know the person. I'm not good at flirting or eye fukking so I don't bother. I figure, if he is interested and felt I was worth the chance, then he'll approach. If he doesn't, then he wasn't THAT interested.

All of the bolded, like seriously talk to me like i'm a person, not just another piece of p*ssy for yu to smash and dash.
Also be yourself, don't try to be cool and act different around me, if yu normally don't act like that it's an automatic turn off (Assuming y'all in school or a campus where yu see that person commonly).
Also don't approach me on sum 'Ay bby wat yo name is' or 'My dawg said u fine so wassup' shyt neither cause 9/10 yu been doin that same line all day and it's obviously gotten yu. And finally, if I don't want yu, don't get mad and say some shyt like *And i've actually been told this too* "I don't want yu anyway skinny ass hoe", "Yu don't got enough ass for me" "Bony bytch"i'll just tell me friends not to FWU and that yu a fukkboi