"I Married A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To"

[Woman of god]

Marry Quantell's leftovers brehs.

What's up with that racist undertone in your hypothetical name selection ? Are u black ?

 

[Taadow]

When I was growing up I knew that I wanted a man who was tall, lean, with light skin and elegant hands (I have a thing about stubby fingers)...To be completely honest, I wanted to be a pastor’s wife.

Of course.

...and then, the title of the article implies she never grew attracted to him. Gee thanks, honey.

 

[ORDER_66]

WTF is A MAN WITH ELEGANT HANDS THO?!?!?

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

She says that with time and being around each other 24/7 that a physical attraction develops. There is hard science to back this idea too.

I can testify to this. My friend's sister had hooked me up with a girl I thought wasn't my type at all, not by face, preference, etc... but over time her personality made her "appeal" greater because she had such great qualities. I became more attracted to her over time... she became cute as hell to me after a while...

 

[SheWantTheD]

Try and psyche yourself out of falling in love because your man doesn't look look like Trey Songz Brehettes

 

[Woman of god]

not most,

that princess syndrom dies when reality sets in and they find themselves being "booty called" more than they are being courted

at some point (around 25 years old) they start to wonder if they will find mr right...and "settling" becomes "clinging"

Old habits die hard. She will definitely start acting right but that dormant superior mindset will still be there

 

[Poitier]

WTF is A MAN WITH ELEGANT HANDS THO?!?!?

some shyt she saw in a disney movie at 7 years old

 

[#1 pick]

She basically breaking the girl code of deny deny deny when it comes to this superficial shyt

But we always settle. Chicka, I never wanted you. You gotta settle as no one you want with options wants you.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Most women do. They just don't say it out loud. She sure took a lot of words to say the equivalent of nothing

What's your "dream man" prototype?

 

[#1 pick]

WTF is A MAN WITH ELEGANT HANDS THO?!?!?

Soft smooth hands with toughness in the handshake. I been told I had them before. CEO hands breh breh

 

[ORDER_66]

some shyt she saw in a disney movie at 7 years old

 

[ORDER_66]

Soft smooth hands with toughness in the handshake. I been told I had them before. CEO hands breh breh

:scustnasty1: I would NOT be proud of that....

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

No, most American women are like you. Old and online putting up pics trying to attract men you are not attracted to so they can play provider after years of your youth chasing men you are attracted to.....and more men are opting out after realizing the cycle

oh wow

 

[#1 pick]

"He Gotta Be 6'7, Light Skin, And Make 6 Figures "

And This Is Out The Mouth Of A Women Who Is Super Religious lol

So you know she ain't lying to set up the no good black man theory Black women in particular are so good at throwing on the Black male collective.

 

[African Peasant]

most men don't marry the finest women they can get.

Becsuse thr most attractive girl doesn't always have the best qualities you need for a sustainable marriage.

Thankfully my girl is with the qualities

This.