"I Married A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To"

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No, most American women are like you. Old and online putting up :flabbynsick: pics trying to attract men you are not attracted to so they can play provider after years of your youth chasing men you are attracted to.....and more men are opting out after realizing the cycle :ld:



People (womans) won't understand the piffery of this message until its too late.


This is a dope ass post.


My sister, who is also a window and in her late 30's, has a lot of divorced and single single (or married and unhappy) friends her age.

To the ones that are married, married for status/security. They all have kids and the broads are in it for the sake of the children. They didn't marry someone they were (or are anymore) attracted to. This caused a rift in the relationship where she begins to resent him and herself for being in that situation (to which, is her fault to begin with).

Now one of her homegirls, the married one, with kids... has no sexual desire for her husband anymore... all she does is lay there while him (still enamored and in love with her) is pounding out the guts of a human mannequin (i.e. she puts zero work in her sex game).

It's sad... bytches think it's all good cuz they have security. But then reality sinks in and she isn't fukkin' the dudes that used to excite her. Keep her interested. Weren't always available and spontaneous, could give her the best sex of her life, etc.


When the kids are born, the house is laid out with a nice yard and picket fence and there's multiple cars with multiple whips... what you think gonna happen when all that gets boring to her? Even with kids and a career and those trips to Europe and Asia several times a year gets trite and dull...


... she's gonna want that old thang back.


The dudes with swag that don't want responsiblity because they refused to grow up. Because they knew better, because all that time, money invested in a woman will only guarantee at minimum, alimony and child support.


Cuz while the supportive, high earning, hard working dude who could provide and has that stock option is delving heavy into that 9-5 corporate gig... who you think's gonna blow her back out?




Knowing and understanding that is basically what separates the men from the mice...


the pits from the poodles...



... the captains --- from the crunch.



Mind you. I ain't shiit. And i ain't about home wrecking... but if a hot ass married chick threw the puss to me... The fukk i look like rejecting it?


Plus... it might even help make they marriage healthier by giving the excitement she so longed and desired for for all these years.




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Texas. :mjcry:

The only standard I'll lower is the child thing. I really don't want a man with children at all, but if he has one, then that's fine. I can rock with that. :obama:

And I used to be into abs but as I've gotten older, the men I find attractive now don't have 6 packs :pachaha:.....they got that I gotta sh*t belly, so that's fine but no Rick Ross sh*t :huhldup:.

But the face has to be as close to a 10 as possible. :ohlawd: So some things have changed but face and height are the things I notice about a man as well as how well he dresses. Doesn't have to be in a suit and tie, but he has to look clean.


My version of a 10 isn't necessarily what other women would call a 10.
I've listed several examples of what my ideal 10 would be (Roman Reigns, Damien Sandow -- gut and all lol, Fabrice Calmels the ballet dancer) and I've had reactions of :ohlawd: all the way to :scust:.


So I don't know why some of y'all thinking I'm looking for this man that no one has ever seen before lol.

I don't think men who look like them are hard to pull :russ:.....................if you lived in an area of men like that :mjcry:.


Plus as soon as things get financially better for me and I get my money up I know the men pool will be absolutely :wow:


I'm gonna be :eat:just watch. :ufdup:

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Are you black?
 

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You must missed my other post -- those men aren't here. I'm in a honky tonk town :mjcry:


I'm getting into entertainment and my wrestling training starts in January :blessed:So I'm sure if I was around options I would. :wow:

Have you been in this honky tonk town your entire life? Never moved out of it? :patrice:

It just seems kinda of far fetched that if you are attractive and could pull that caliber of man if he was available, that you weren't able to pull the most eligible bachelor in your town. It can't be literally 0 attractive guys in your town :ld:
 

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We need to just accept the fact that women are just as shallow, when it comes to looks, as men. Maybe even more so nowadays.
 

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Have you been in this honky tonk town your entire life? Never moved out of it? :patrice:

It just seems kinda of far fetched that if you are attractive and could pull that caliber of man if he was available, that you weren't able to pull the most eligible bachelor in your town. It can't be literally 0 attractive guys in your town :ld:


Yep I have. Never had the money to move. My sisters didn't move until marriage but my 2nd oldest sister was allowed to go to college; that's how she eventually met her husband -- he was working with our stepdad. Now she regrets marrying the b*stard lol. My 3rd sister met her husband in junior high -- still together -- but all 3 of my sisters lived in a black area majority of their lives.

And dead serious about the attractive factor here. We live in the suburb area but less than 30 seconds down the streets is the trailer park. :damn:
 

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Guess what all these dudes have in common? :mjpls:

Looks like we've got a live one, boys.


Reigns is biracial, Damien is of Arab decent and Fabrice is mixed.......like me. He has black ancestry from what I've saw on his earlier instagram pics. :yeshrug:So ":mjpls:" back at you brotha............and :dahell:for getting :mjpls: at light skinned/mixed folks for liking men that look like them. :dahell:
 

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Reigns is biracial, Damien is of Arab decent and Fabrice is mixed.......like me. He has black ancestry from what I've saw on his earlier instagram pics. :yeshrug:So ":mjpls:" back at you brotha............and :dahell:for getting :mjpls: at light skinned/mixed folks for liking men that look like them. :dahell:
All skating the line on black. :dead:
 

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Yep I have. Never had the money to move. My sisters didn't move until marriage but my 2nd oldest sister was allowed to go to college; that's how she eventually met her husband -- he was working with our stepdad. Now she regrets marrying the b*stard lol. My 3rd sister met her husband in junior high -- still together -- but all 3 of my sisters lived in a black area majority of their lives.

And dead serious about the attractive factor here. We live in the suburb area but less than 30 seconds down the streets is the trailer park. :damn:

Reigns is biracial, Damien is of Arab decent and Fabrice is mixed.......like me. He has black ancestry from what I've saw on his earlier instagram pics. :yeshrug:So ":mjpls:" back at you brotha............and :dahell:for getting :mjpls: at light skinned/mixed folks for liking men that look like them. :dahell:

Are you open to black guys? Maybe if you expanded your horizons you'd have more options to choose from :mjpls:
 
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Lol she is average herself...tf? The chance of her landing that type was slim to none.

She made it seem like dude looked like the hunchback of notre dame, they're both around the same level in terms of looks, what made her think she's so out of his league physically?
 
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"He Gotta Be 6'7, Light Skin, And Make 6 Figures "

And This Is Out The Mouth Of A Women Who Is Super Religious lol



...and women wonder why men are the way they are. Women create the things in men they don't want they just don't realize it.
 
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