"I Married A Guy I Wasn't Attracted To"

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theres a difference between loving god in action in loving him in words. Loving God in action means you try to do right by him and follow his commands. you dont deliberately go against his word when you truly love him. my ideal guy would love God in actions and words
Babe, with all due respect there are plenty of people out there that can fake it for the longest or have skeletons burried deep in their closets that you wouldnt be able to uncover with 2-3 years of knowing them. Since the average woman these days feels like 18 monts is plenty time to date and decide if to marry said man, how sure would you be that your chosen mate is one that truly loves God and not an imposter?

I can take you down to West Palm Beach and show you this pastor who, to many, is the holliest of men. BUt little did they know dude was a macoute during Duvalier's regime and killed many people back in the days and then escaped the country in '86.
All the sudden he's a pastor and im supposed to believe he found Jesus? :francis:
 

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You went purely with superficial needs, then just tacked on "God loving" at the end.
As far as superficial people goes, more than a few Christians, or so-called Christians, are definitely on the list. From what I've seen, quite a few "Christian" people are only so nominally and use it to offset their negative character traits. :francis:
 

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I have no sympathy for people who marry people they aren't attracted to.
You have 2 working eyes, what's your excuse?

Imagine me telling my wife 2 years in "Yeah... I never found you attractive :manny:"


Dumb shyt :rudy:

Women get ran through by "attractive" guys from age 18-25 (i said 18 since thats the legal age)

Once you hit a certain age its time for women to GROW THE FUKK UP and make smart long term choices

Being able to provide>>>>looks

Theres not enough good looking guys with money to go around, so these women better choose wisely
 

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Babe, with all due respect there are plenty of people out there that can fake it for the longest or have skeletons burried deep in their closets that you wouldnt be able to uncover with 2-3 years of knowing them. Since the average woman these days feels like 18 monts is plenty time to date and decide if to marry said man, how sure would you be that your chosen mate is one that truly loves God and not an imposter?

I can take you down to West Palm Beach and show you this pastor who, to many, is the holliest of men. BUt little did they know dude was a macoute during Duvalier's regime and killed many people back in the days and then escaped the country in '86.
All the sudden he's a pastor and im supposed to believe he found Jesus? :francis:
im aware. anybody at any time can call themselves a christian and a freely applied label invites all types of inconsistencies with what the label itself actually means. i was asked to describe my ideal man. when i say that ideally he would love God, i am speaking of that in a perfect world, and in that perfect world i wouldnt have to consider whether or not he truly lives holy. in hypothetical utopias u assume the best, or so i thought
 

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im aware. anybody at any time can call themselves a christian and a freely applied label invites all types of inconsistencies with what the label itself actually means. i was asked to describe my ideal man. when i say that ideally he would love God, i am speaking of that in a perfect world, and in that perfect world i wouldnt have to consider whether or not he truly lives holy. in hypothetical utopias u assume the best, or so i thought

Man fukk all that

You need to get with a man who will stay married to you and keep your kids decked in jordan and polo gear

All that looks sh*t is played out because more people are unattractive by the time they hit 30 anyway
 

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Man fukk all that

You need to get with a man who will stay married to you and keep your kids decked in jordan and polo gear

All that looks sh*t is played out because more people are unattractive by the time they hit 30 anyway
ok
 

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Women get ran through by "attractive" guys from age 18-25 (i said 18 since thats the legal age)

Once you hit a certain age its time for women to GROW THE FUKK UP and make smart long term choices

Being able to provide>>>>looks

Theres not enough good looking guys with money to go around, so these women better choose wisely

I feel you, i'm just saying dont complain about it long term.

The women who complain about it are the ones who still prioritize looks way more than they want anyone to believe
 

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theres a difference between loving god in action in loving him in words. Loving God in action means you try to do right by him and follow his commands. you dont deliberately go against his word when you truly love him. my ideal guy would love God in actions and words

You don't have to explain yourself to the coli.

this is a relatively Godless forum.
 

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Because I'm selfish and it's about what I want. If he treats me right, loves me and respects me, why should I care if he's an a$$hole to the general public. Those ppl don't care about me:yeshrug:
I wasn't saying I would date an attractive guy that had a bad attitude towards me. I was simply providing a counter argument of some women being "bytches" but have loving husbands and marriages.
:wtf:

This man doesn't exist. You live in a fairy tale world where you think you have what it takes to make a piece of shyt man treat you decently. You're not any better than the general public.
 
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