Are they truly having fun though? From my experience, people who feel the need to excessively get drunk all the time are trying to escape reality. Deep down inside they're sad and miserable
The whole partying culture is really weird to me. It's really disappointing when I see girls my age who feel this compulsory need to party all the time. They act like staying home and watching a movie with their boyfriend/husband is punishment.
i think your over compensating because you envy/resent guys that get girls that party... the reality of the situation is... alot of hot girls like to party and theyre gonna get with guys that like to party too... if you want a girl to sit at home and watch movies youll find her... but you need to change your expectations.
getting excessively drunk multiple days a week doesnt mean your sad and miserable... it means your in college breh.