I know what that friendzoning shyt come from breh's :ohhh:

[Gab]

I honestly didnt read anything the OP wrote but I think I can safely say, its some dumb shyt

 

[Spectre]

honestly if u have to change ur true personality to just to get her to like u, maybe she's not good for u.
faking it just to smash? guys forget that if u keep faking that stuff eventually u become it then it'll be too late when u meet women recognize real, who liked the older u but throw the new u to the thots

 

[RAW_SPK]

Ight so long story short. I met this dame, cute, her body was right and the most attractive quality was shortie had a head on her shoulders and was in school going for her masters trying to be a Doctor. not one of them bullshyt ass can't prescribe medicine one's but a "Give me 10 cc's stat" save a nikka type Doctor. but it just wasn't no other feelings besides "Damn, she would be a solid ass friend."

so naturally I'm like "the fukk? this the type of shyt I want right? A chick with her head on her shoulders, no kids, no drama, smart and cool as shyt. why I'm not feeling her like that though?"

then the shyt clicked!

shortie was too different for me. and I thought about the shyt, I aint no super suave nikka nor a bad dude but the chicks I was going for, I was totally different then what they were used to having approach em. I hold the door for the chick, but her nikka she be head over heals for be the type to tell her "Bring yo mahfukking ass on". lol.

Friendzone comes from when the pursuer is too different than the norm the person being pursued is used to.

Brings me to my second thought...

Game is important as fukk now. nah brehettes, not "game" in the sense of having multiple women and lying but "game" in the sense of being able to adapt to the environment and being able to shift personalities to net the dame (or dude, whatever ya'll coli folks be's on) and not get friendzoned.

Breh's I'm bout to write a book and smash super models, fukk Steve Harvey

and that doesn't necessarily mean being nicer to em either

 

[I LOVECHEESE]

Sometimes you end up in the friendzone if she's not attracted to you...nothing you can really do bout that

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Umm..you get put in the friend zone when you dont act fast enough in the romantic dept....THEN you figure out if the Friend Zone is inevitable.

I dont know to many niccas that place females in the friend zone they trying to fukk, get to know etc..

 

[Reginald Noble]

I agree, and many Black Men are in the friend zone with sisters because they are too square. "Different" being they are different from the hood nikkas that regularly holla at them on some thug shyt.

Your only option really is either :

a) Live with a dry dikk or
b) Date outside the race.

 

[Nomadum]

Sometimes you end up in the friendzone if she's not attracted to you...nothing you can really do bout that

true. but i've done had chances and friend zoned myself being a gentleman. so its possible she likes you initially but then find out yall vibing on 2 different wave lengths and reduce the attraction to one that becomes platonic in nature.

i aint claiming to be the know-it-all to understanding women but that shyt clicked like an epiphany and i ran back over all the times i was friendzoned