This is the realist talk ill ever spit but straight up when I was in Afghanistan my wife wanted to hire a trainer and start working out and lose weight, I told her go for it with the stipulation she doesn't get obsessed and try to lose a shyt ton of weight because she wasn't anywhere NEAR being overweight before, she just needed toning. She lost about 15 pounds which was cool but then, just like I expected she started getting obsessed and wanted to lose more and more, it got to the point where she's posting messages on twitter and Facebook talking about how she couldn't wait to get "white girl skinny".
The phone conversation that followed was probably one of the rawest I've ever gotten with her. I didn't want to hear her opinion, thoughts, or reasoning on the matter li just straight up tod her that if she EVER got "white girl skinny" I'd lose all respect for her and would be too disgusted to have sex with her. I HATE the way white women look, the way their built, the revolting lack of curves or ass. And she KNOWS this, so I told her in NO uncertain terms she better chill with those ideas.
She did the whole crying "I just wanna be healthy" bit and I told her hat there's nothing wrong with being healthy, but being skinny just for the sake of being skinny isn't healthy in itself and its downright ugly