Black women are GORGEOUS, and were my attraction preference. However I know from being raised by them that I would never be able to expect peace in my own home, as well as not be seen as valuable because “strong independent woman” and a lot of masculine aggression from the women in my family.
So if you want to attract any man, not just non-black, you are going to have to OVER compensate for this expectation by being extremely feminine, cooperative, fit, etc.
I married a white woman who has racist family members and they all love me as “one of the good ones” because I over compensated to counter stereotypes. Still dont respect me as an equal, but it’s about as good as can be expected while keeping some self-respect.
You also need to counter the stereotypes that will have people taking advantage of you. Dont let them string you along, make your relationship goals clear, and for god sakes dont have any kids out of wedlock and use protection.