Hard reality is most nikkas ain't got tha pedigree to be "that nikka", and "that nikka" is tha one most hoes are after. Most young nikkas are average looking and worse with average personalities and insecurities that hinder them from getting at hoes tha way they could (not a diss, just what it is), and most young nikkas ain't got tha money or clout to compensate for those shortcomings, so yeah tha prevailing advice is gonna be "focus on your finances so you can lead with your wallet in your 30s" Some find a way to associate yourself with "that nikka" and eat table scraps left over, but for most it's either that or be content with what you can pull now.
Or trick.
While you're not wrong, that's not what people want to hear.
It's like weight loss and exercise commercials, they don't show people with average results. People that slimmed down and are no longer obese or fat and just look more presentable results. They show broads in bikinis and men with chiseled chests, bulging biceps and 6 pack abs. Those are the results people want.
If you had an office where people came to you and said "hey I'm 21 and I want a girl like this (and pointed to some young Instagram broad)" and you did an evaluation of their lifestyle and their life and came to the conclusion "you just don't have 'it'" or "you don't have the pedigree" they don't want to hear that.
They want a breakdown of what it is, or the pedigree and how to get it. This Instagram post just says "just wait til you're older" .
Going to the club at 22 and 32 are completely fukking different. Partying and hanging out with broads are completely different at 32 and 22.
If you're 21 and you grew up on spongeBob and Victoria justice or whatever and you're with your peers in the club and ariana Grande comes on there's a different vibe than some 32 year old that was like "I was too old for that, but I know who it is"
There's absolutely nothing wrong with being that guy in you're teens and twenties, having fun, having sex and kids with bad bytches. It is a two way street. Most of those same men have kids and meet broads when they are older and washed up too, so in a way they get double the fun.