I have a serious problem and need some real legit advice

[Mr210]

ok so my girl and I have been together for almost a year and a half, Ive been real close to her fam, usually seeing her brother and his fam along with her mom atleast 2-3 times a month every month. On the regular I would go to my girl's nephew's football and basketball games. Well, the last 2 months have been rocky, and her family knows we have been having problems because I havent been around any of them since the first week of September, plus my gf and I have been spending less time together, due to fights, which they were aware of. the past 2 weeks things have gotten much better and we have patched everything up, but I wasnt going to be going to her brother's house tomorrow for thanksgiving. My girl was going to split half the day with her fam and then in the afternoon come over to my place.

well tonight she tells me her brother wants me to have thanksgiving dinner with them tomorrow. I told my girl I had to think about it because im going to feel uncomfortable in the house knowing that they all know we have been having problems. My girl says I need to put my pride to the side. Should I go, or stay home

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

You need to go breh but you guys need to keep the relationship between you two

 

[ClassyME]

So you're scared to go to your gf's brother's crib because your relationship with YOUR girlfriend has been rocky? unless you put your hands on her then he shouldn't have a problem... BUT you're such a i just felt like giving my opinion to a in a situation.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Yall first fukk up was letting her fam into yall personal issues which should remain private between u n her

Plus, ure a grown ass man...if u dont feel comfortable around her fam then let her know that and dont go. If she dont understand that then yall issues are far frm over.

 

[Cat piss martini]

unless youve put hands on that woman youre good.
i'm sure they know she's crazy as shyt like most women.
if anything them nikkas feel your pain and want
you there to complain to about their dames while
you drink and lose at madden.

now if you have put hands on her you
may have the ass beating you dread coming

 

[Scott Steiner]

I'm sorry but I have no sympy for you! Send you freak over to my peak!

 

[illadope]

You Share that girl

 

[A.V.]

ok so my girl and I have been together for almost a year and a half, Ive been real close to her fam, usually seeing her brother and his fam along with her mom atleast 2-3 times a month every month. On the regular I would go to my girl's nephew's football and basketball games. Well, the last 2 months have been rocky, and her family knows we have been having problems because I havent been around any of them since the first week of September, plus my gf and I have been spending less time together, due to fights, which they were aware of. the past 2 weeks things have gotten much better and we have patched everything up, but I wasnt going to be going to her brother's house tomorrow for thanksgiving. My girl was going to split half the day with her fam and then in the afternoon come over to my place.

well tonight she tells me her brother wants me to have thanksgiving dinner with them tomorrow. I told my girl I had to think about it because im going to feel uncomfortable in the house knowing that they all know we have been having problems. My girl says I need to put my pride to the side. Should I go, or stay home

Jus go over there and catch that fade, homie.

Spoiler

Scary ass nikka

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

I had that same issue, but I still went. You might get a few stares or a couple of phony conversations, but that shouldn't bother you. You cannot control what other ppl say or feel about you. You're going there to support your girl and let those mf's know "yeah, we here and what". Don't be scared fam, if her BROTHER (of all ppl) say come through fam, respect that.

 

[Art Barr]

What type of fights, nikka?

I do not do that narcissistic Ass bullshyt,.....
Stop trying to build a sympathy support group, to prop you up while you on bullshyt.

What type of swag is You, b?

Cheater swag
Physically abusive swag
Narcissistic cheater swag
Fake a relationship for a nut cheater swag

If you one of them type,..don't be coming to us for advice and sympathy nikka.
i won't be one of them nikkaz like he was a stand up dude...
Blah blah blah,..nah not blahzy blah skippity wee whomp...
fukk outta here, till you give us the real story.
That we been having fights shyt is to suspect to honor, b,!


Art Barr

 

[MewTwo]

Can't believe I read all that. I thought you said you had a serious problem?

 

[A.V.]

Can't believe I read all that. I thought you said you had a serious problem?

Matter fact, now that you mention it, b...
















































































IM BOUT TO NEG THIS nikka!!!!

 

[Mr210]

Yeah, im going to just go, shyt if I dont go I will be spending most of thanksgiving bymyself. We don't get neither of our families involved in our relationship, her family was able to pick up on the problems because they are close, and they are use to us spending so much time together and like I said I was always around, so when they hadnt seen me for 2 months, they knew something up

 

[thegreatest]

well tonight she tells me her brother wants me to have thanksgiving dinner with them tomorrow. I told my girl I had to think about it because im going to feel uncomfortable in the house knowing that they all know we have been having problems. My girl says I need to put my pride to the side. Should I go, or stay home

What does this have to do with pride? Man up and go if you feel like going. It'll be fun, and you seem to be cool with her fam. In the future, tell her to keep your relationship private. This is one of the best things you can do. If she keeps telling her fam every time you have a fight , they'll start getting all up in your business like they are now. Be cool with the fam but don't let them into your relationship, ya dig?

 

[Mr210]

What does this have to do with pride? Man up and go if you feel like going. It'll be fun, and you seem to be cool with her fam. In the future, tell her to keep your relationship private. This is one of the best things you can do. If she keeps telling her fam every time you have a fight , they'll start getting all up in your business like they are now. Be cool with the fam but don't let them into your relationship, ya dig?

she doesnt not tell her famn our problems, can u not read, they were able to figure it out, because of the less time we were spending together, and I havent been coming around for the past 2 months