yes, I'm sure
i hate pretty women man....
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yes, I'm sure
I think you just need to handle rejection better. There's literally over 3 billion women in the world. There's no reason to get hung up on one you don't even know. Just work on making yourself a better person and the rest will follow.
Everybody has been shot down a million times here, including women. (maybe a good thread topic) You gotta just take it in stride.
Xtraz2
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sounds like tha typical Coli militant venting 
You must spread reputation to at least 30 other user(s) before you can give reputation to observe again.Yeah all men should hate beautiful women...A1 posting OP
KenyaDoll
Demonic eyebrows & animal print
Oh okay well this might pertain to her.
I was at a conference for work and was at the hotel drinking at the bar watching the game. I was pissed though since it was my birthday and I was at a work conference but whatever.
Anyways as I'm sitting there two fine ass sistas walk in and sit at the bar.So I start some small talk about it being my birthday and they wish a nikka a happy birthday. They were also there for the conference and in my same profession so both highly educated. I'm trying to run some game so I tell them both of them are gorgeous. They say thanks and then tell me how they've both been single for a year.
I was like nah I KNOW dudes try to get at you guys. They said yes but mostly old white guys and thug type dudes. They were BOTH extremely nice mild mannered too so I didn't get any crazy vibes.
They then said they were SUPRISED I talked to them since I was a clean cut educated black guy. I was like really. They said a lot of times educated brothas give them no play. I was having a hard time around thinking that is true but then I've been in environments where I've seen fine sistas in settings just out in the open as bait and the taking is pretty easy for a cat like me
but other brothers are like they don't see them or trying to get with some average pawg. My one homeboy even said he doesn't approach attractive black women because he's scared they'll be stuck up
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And those white Cacs be right there to try and scoop a lot of them up too.
But the moral of my story is I think a lot of these educated nikkas are afraid to approach attractive black women for whatever reason. But that's more eating for me so whatever
This sounds similar to me. In my old college town, the college educated black guys friend zoned ALL the fellow female graduate students (regardless of attractiveness and personality). When we'd go out to bars and dance clubs, they'd be thirsting after non-blacks.
I get the most attention from older black men (not trying to "holla" but just being willing to speak, smile, and etc.), others, and what the coli would deem as "thugs" (again, they may not try to "holla" but they will say hello). It's typically fellow black male students or educated black males who go out of their way to avoid eye contact or saying hello.
To the op, maybe you can't get any play because of your entitlement issues.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
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It's true. It's this girl i came up with that frustrated the hell out of her. She said only thugs, nerdy cacs and old men approached her. She said she worked with 8 other black men and 5 had white women and of those 3 of them were fat and already had kids. Her cousins were straight up Thot-a-lots. One of them wasn't even close to being attractive...had 3 kids by 2 different dudes and snagged a Army Captain while they were out at a restaurant. He married her and had a kid with her too. The other cousin use to chase dope boys but is ratchet as hell. This chick somehow met and married a dude that's probably a dentist by now...i know he was close to finishing years ago. She was the classic example of a hoe moving to a different state to erase her hoedom...and it worked for her...but frustrated the homegirl.
So here she is...got 2 BA's... her Masters and was back in school then for her PHD. She was a regional manager for some company in NC, had her own side business, was into church [taught Sunday school], wasn't out there at all sexually, was in shape [Gabby Union body type], could sing her ass off [if i wasn't trying to fukk everything that was moving that could've been my wife...in hindsight], could cook [that was her side business...catering], good credit...i could go on. She nearly broke down telling me out her cousins and how they'd all be out and none of the professional catch would talk to her. She was like "why didn't you want me when were were younger" and i told her i just wasn't ready to settle thenand didn't want to lead her on. She told me if she was trifling like her cousins she would steal me away from my wifey
... had me sit in her brand new whip...saying 'all i want is someone to share all my hard work with...is that too much to ask for shooting me the
look. Do i intimidate men...etc etc etc'. I told her she was beautiful, be patient, and went home....but
the one that got away by default....
or maybe she was batshyt crazy
Be honest brah. Is she ugly?
Woodwerkz
R.I.P. King Bean #8 #24 and Little Deuce #2 Gigi
Nah she's far from ugly. Her problem was that she had her "I'm a woman of the church" demeanor on high display and didn't know how to have fun. She was the type that had to have a night out planned to the t....and if 1 thing changed it was a bad night and she shut down. She couldn't be spontaneous and was a Debbie d9wner... to uptight to be that young...you'd think she was 45y/o if you talked to her on the phone at times.
:knowa: its like she's looking directly at me going "shhhh this is all for u dnt tell nobody"so this is the avi @KOOL-AID was speaking of
Malik
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It's true. It's this girl i came up with that frustrated the hell out of her. She said only thugs, nerdy cacs and old men approached her. She said she worked with 8 other black men and 5 had white women and of those 3 of them were fat and already had kids. Her cousins were straight up Thot-a-lots. One of them wasn't even close to being attractive...had 3 kids by 2 different dudes and snagged a Army Captain while they were out at a restaurant. He married her and had a kid with her too. The other cousin use to chase dope boys but is ratchet as hell. This chick somehow met and married a dude that's probably a dentist by now...i know he was close to finishing years ago. She was the classic example of a hoe moving to a different state to erase her hoedom...and it worked for her...but frustrated the homegirl.
So here she is...got 2 BA's... her Masters and was back in school then for her PHD. She was a regional manager for some company in NC, had her own side business, was into church [taught Sunday school], wasn't out there at all sexually, was in shape [Gabby Union body type], could sing her ass off [if i wasn't trying to fukk everything that was moving that could've been my wife...in hindsight], could cook [that was her side business...catering], good credit...i could go on. She nearly broke down telling me out her cousins and how they'd all be out and none of the professional catch would talk to her. She was like "why didn't you want me when were were younger" and i told her i just wasn't ready to settle then
Don't feel bad for her or those crocodile tears. She passed up hundreds of dudes when she was young because she thought they were lame. Now she's old and regretting her choices. Don't listen to that bullshiit that nobody stepped to her, she thought she was too good for nikkas. If a chick that's a dime says no one approaches her, she's full of it....knowing the way she looks, all she gotta do is go sit next to someone, ask what time it is, SMILE and 90% of men would be
They're full of it. I never listen to that dumb shiit.