I hate having sex with my fiance. But it’s too late to call off the wedding

[Inspect Her Deck]

This is not true at all.

Exaggerated to say NO chance, but it's a very steep uphill battle.

Women make those decisions instantly upon seeing you and if they are sexually attracted it's up to you to now show you have the rest of the package to really pique her interest or to not severely fukk it up at least.

If that's not there to begin with, then of course you may have the occasional feel-good love story about how a guy wasn't a woman's type but he was so nice and did this and that. That's an uphill battle though, because every time she looks at someone sexually attractive to her, she'd be thinking "what if". Once a woman in a relationship thinks "what if"...good luck.

Are you speaking from experience when you say it's not true?

 

[Unknown Poster]

She's Indian.

Yeah I actually didn't give a fukk about this thread or Op enough to actually read the article.


And I still don't. Hence this being my last post in this thread.

 

[analog]

This broad is trash, that's a given.

My question is what would compel a dude to save a hoe like this that he knows allowed herself to be treated like dog shyt? He must see the lack of fire/desire in her eyes. Why do this to yourself?

Can't even sympathize with dude cause he clearly has no interest in setting himself for success . He could've got his piece then threw her back on the street for the next dude...

 

[Rozay Oro]

Wow bytch just call off the wedding. Bald cac with the mole finna get cheated on

 

[Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr]

She’s a dothead feminist lawyer...that tells you right there the bytch is insufferable.
p*ssy is probably musty with a hint of stale curry. She looks like a prize for the sad b*stard fiancé since she’s a lawyer and probably looks better than anything he’s ever been with.
Them white boys just wanted to nut in something not white just one time...

 

[LurkMoar]

Welp

 

[LurkMoar]

Bytch is almost 40 talking like this, smh hope she leaves that man alone and spares him the pain

 

[Pool_Shark]

At 35 she’s gotta work with what she’s got.

Tell him to hit the gym, wax his hairy ass back, an grow a pair of nuts.

the guy sounds like a simp. Calling her a goddess right after he got some puss.

she should tell him what she wants an if he doesn’t want to do it then peace. Sometimes it’s better to just be alone fukk it.

 

[WheresWallace]

This is why I smh at dudes who complain about girls chasing the men that they WANT. If you rather a chick "settle" for the 'nice guy' that you claim to be, this is what you get.

At the end of the day, you win some you lose some.

If you want a super attractive 'dime' then he/she will have their money flaws and personality flaws.
If you want a super stable 'good' spouse then he/she will have their 'fun' flaws and sexy flaws.

pick your poison.

 

[Mr Rager]

She's 35 looking for Prince Charming

He's wifing a bustdown near her expiration date

Both parties lose.

 

[threattonature]

Ain’t no perfect package out here male or female if you find someone that checks most of your boxes better keep them ain’t easy to find at all lol

I disagree. Too many people end up with people who check all the boxes but they have no connection with them and end up miserable. Chemistry is a huge deal and if I'm going to be spending the rest of my life with someone I want it to be someone I truly enjoy being around and spending time with.

I think far too many people get impatient and just on the first decent thing moving only to realize later those feelings aren't there. Or they date a bunch of a$$holes so the first decent person they meet they settle down with because at least they're not an a$$hole. To me there is nothing worse than being lonely in a relationship.

I agree though a lot of people have standards that are too high and want everything in their partner and have to learn to sacrifice in certain areas I just think. I just think that in the OP that chemistry isn't really there and she's mistaking it as sexual attraction.

 

[Neuromancer]

We need a Get married Brehs song with the John Cena beat.

 

[gho3st]

p*ssy probably a little loose or ther s something she’s not saying like she maybe too needy . That nikka lost tho...


That scientist Damn bruh you supposed to be a scientist lol

 

[Drew Wonder]

The problem isn’t the sex not being great. The problem is her being unwilling to talk to him about the sex not being great. If she’s too scared to tell him that they shouldn’t be getting married

 

[threattonature]

Yeah I’ll put money on her p*ssy is trash or she’s crazy. Clearly short bald fiancé breh doesn’t have much experience or he woulda dipped from time.

I've told so many of my female friends that their box is probably trash. Anytime sex comes up EVERY woman talks about how good they are at it and how freaky they are. I tell them guys say that shyt so they can fukk again. The real test is how long the guys stick around or how they act when the girl breaks up with them. Most dudes ain't leaving great sex. Dudes will wife that or at least stick around with them. If a girl keeps getting ghosted after fukking that means the p*ssy is trash.