I get really nervous when really hot guys stare at me

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women are always complaining about finding the "right guy" physically but when they see him they dont know how to act. Women up and talk to him. if he rejects you its not like he's going to go out of his way to embarrass you ( like females would). rejection is apart of life. How did you feel when you didnt get that promotion you wanted or that job you applied too bad right, but you got over it right. its the same thing. if not im always here ;-)
 

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Some nikkas wait on the opening if u hiding in the window playing peek a boo then he ain't had a opening


What If u speak and he come over and his breath stank?
 

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Well since you aint gonna talk to him no time soon, how about you slick take a pic and tell the rest of us ladies where we can find him.:lolbron:
 

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i apologize in advance but the op is a woman??? i had to do a double check with the screenname. "marty thee don" sounds like a name a guy would go by. wow, i'm late.
 

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Tell him and see what happens. I bet he tries to holla.

I guarantee that if you walk up to a nikka and tell him he's beautiful, you'll creep him out. If you tell some weird odd ball ass dude who talks about people's energy or some shyt, then that might work....but you don't wanna open with that.:snoop:
 

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I guarantee that if you walk up to a nikka and tell him he's beautiful, you'll creep him out. If you tell some weird odd ball ass dude who talks about people's energy or some shyt, then that might work....but you don't wanna open with that.:snoop:

She doesn't have say that word for word but if she gives him the general sentiment that he is very attractive he will not be creeped out.
 

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TO be honest I don't know if hes even interested in me. :to:

but I just want him to know that hes beautiful.

Then fukking tell him and stop acting like a 14 year old high school girl. Give him a compliment and see where it goes from there!!!!
 

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No but Ive witnessed women get rejected by men and its a scary sight :wow:

and how do u know that? :russ:

I don't know....I'll see...:ehh:


why did the reese, i don't like fredo in the cut sound clip play in my head reading, this just now.



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Either the bold or hes toying with me...I've been talking to a guy from school for the past 2 weeks but all I think about is him...hes in my head :why:



SVENGHOULIE ; aaaahhhh,......berwyn!!!

stop being a punk ass bytch,...
women in chi get played because they let the guy they like pass them by.

then play settling susan and wind up complaining about who they settled for.

don't be settling susie,.....


art barr

i hope you are really a female,.....
i can not be given trannies pep talks of any kind!!
 

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I rarely approach girls honestly and if I do it's because they give me that sign, sometimes a dime will spark up a convo but hoodrats dont give a fukk though. Facebook is another story, them chicks be bold as hell on there. But yeah I like the shy sweet girls thing but if she dont show a sign we'd just be strangers because I hardly ever just approach out of the blue.
 

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He might think the same thing you're thinking. I know on occasion i see a really beautiful woman and i smile at her. But i don't get the vibe that she'd be that receptive to my advances so i don't do anything.

Try casually starting a convo. ask him for directions or comment generally on something that's going on around you. that usually is enough to give him the confidence to make a move in case he was actually feeling you but was too shy or awkward about it.

Didnt see get to see him today since I went to my afternoon classy early instead. :whew:

So this is going to give me 4 whole days to muster up the courage. :snoop:

U shouldve seen my reaction when I first saw him, went like this :dwillhuh: :noah: :whoo: :wow: :aicmon:
Lance Gross & Trey Songz? I understand where the apprehension is coming from, sorry love.


Give a non creepy smile, make a lil eye contact, but let a man be a man. I don't advocate approaching.

Why don't u advocate approaching?

Tell him and see what happens. I bet he tries to holla.

:heh: if I tell him that, it might creep him out.
women are always complaining about finding the "right guy" physically but when they see him they dont know how to act. Women up and talk to him. if he rejects you its not like he's going to go out of his way to embarrass you ( like females would). rejection is apart of life. How did you feel when you didnt get that promotion you wanted or that job you applied too bad right, but you got over it right. its the same thing. if not im always here ;-)

:ehh: the male responses in here is persuading me to approach him.
 

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Some nikkas wait on the opening if u hiding in the window playing peek a boo then he ain't had a opening


What If u speak and he come over and his breath stank?
Well I love my window seat on the train so I can look out the window, listen to my music, and do some studying. :manny:

I'm just an all around shy person...I wonder if the reason he doesnt say anything is because I have my headphones on bumping traffic by chief keef and lil reese extra loud :facepalm:

Well since you aint gonna talk to him no time soon, how about you slick take a pic and tell the rest of us ladies where we can find him.:lolbron:

I aint bout that creep life mane :damn:

What if hes a poster on here? :deadrose:
i apologize in advance but the op is a woman??? i had to do a double check with the screenname. "marty thee don" sounds like a name a guy would go by. wow, i'm late.
yes I'm a woman lol. Marty is the name of my favorite character on the hit tv series House Of Lies.
Then fukking tell him and stop acting like a 14 year old high school girl. Give him a compliment and see where it goes from there!!!!

I'm not acting like a 14 yr old school girl. :ninja1:

I'm just shy like that. :yeshrug:

I rarely approach girls honestly and if I do it's because they give me that sign, sometimes a dime will spark up a convo but hoodrats dont give a fukk though. Facebook is another story, them chicks be bold as hell on there. But yeah I like the shy sweet girls thing but if she dont show a sign we'd just be strangers because I hardly ever just approach out of the blue.

Well its hard to show a sign to a man so damn beautiful...if it was just some regular attractive guy that sparked my interest, no problem but him? :ohlawd:
 
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