Women be having situations going on, yall sounding entitled. If she not hitting you back then she got some shyt going on. Either she just ignoring your shyt or she got a nikka. Either way, it really shouldn’t matter. If you got enough motion you not gonna be tripping on a chick not hitting you back or disappearing for a few days.
And then, nikkas high key be scared to put a full court press on a bytch. If you like her put some pressure on her if you think she playing. Just tell a bytch straight up, you gon have to cut all them other nikkas off. If a bytch fukking with you telling her some shyt like that will have her fukked up. But just cause she fukking with you don’t mean she ain’t already got a situation. If you like her like that put that pressure on her ass. If not, then these hoes will text back when they text back.
Right, once you see them in person, they will usually tell you why they benched you/didn't respond, once someone said:
"yeah I had to block you I got engaged". I was like but I never even called you lol -
Often "ghosting" is someone just saying "
not right now", without actually saying I am fukking with someone else, and it's kinda serious, because its not "official" yet, or because she isn't sure, it leaves plausible deniability, even if both her and I know what's up
but what I tell my boys is stop all that cutsey texting, and have an invite. Let's go here. Let's hit this place. You will get your answer a lot faster, then going back and forth about nothing, and worrying why she didn't respond to your "goodnight" text within 18 minutes - all that is chump shyt honestly.
note: this only applies to people you actually know. not apps.
