Can't condone cheating on your wife for any reason. If it's not working out, get a divorce.
I dont really feel bad when wives who "let themselves go" get cheated on...
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the funny thing with that some of these guys think that having money, staying in shape, and being attractive means that they are entitled to a good woman but yet they think and say things like YBE says. then when no women wants to have anything to do with them, they talk about "how come women don't want me?" well, do they expect a woman to give them the time of the day when they're shytting on women on a daily basis.
This, if you base your self worth on trivial, material things, then you are doomed to forever be in fukked up relationships. Doesn't matter who you are your looks will diminish over time. If you define yourself by your looks, then eventually you will have nothing to offer. The same goes for choosing a mate, if you chose them for their looks, eventually they will have nothing to offer you.
Come on breh, not like she talking about their sex life. And I would consider her a"friend". Been working together for 6 years now and have hung out a couple times (her man was there, I actually know him. I've been to their crib and erything).
It's just that he's getting
and shes a health nut. It's pretty reasonable to request that your partner stays fit if you do too. Would you accept you s/o not brushing her teeth anymore and just using mints to mask the stench? My future wife gets fat and I'm sorry but...[Jerry Lavigne Jr. RIP] I gotta gooo!
spliz
SplizThaDon
Come on breh, not like she talking about their sex life. And I would consider her a"friend". Been working together for 6 years now and have hung out a couple times (her man was there, I actually know him. I've been to their crib and erything).
It's just that he's getting
U cant compare hygiene to looks g...thats extreme..lol..but nah..if yall all know eachother I guess its whatever...like I said before tho...I dont think theres a problem at all for wanting ur S/O to hit the gym and keep in shape..especially if u plan on being with em for the long haul. .
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Even so, that is still not the same as this. It's in a man's natural instinct/biology to be a provider. The value we have placed on a woman's looks is strictly societally driven, meaning it's a complete social construct. The need a man feels to provide for his family and the need a woman has for security/protection will never go away. Looks? The media could change people's perception what's considered "attractive" or not within 5-10 years. There are tribes in Africa where bigger women are seen more beautiful. There's no tribe where men aren't seen/expected to be the ultimate providers, because it's an innate thing. The concept of beauty is a man made social construct.
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Honestly, this just goes back to the idea that men love hoes.
Grown ass men are really in here saying they'd betray a good person they've chosen to make a commitment to over a lifetime for a couple nuts with a pretty face?
And then you all wonder why a lot of women are dirty.What is their motivation to do right by men, when y'all have made it clear that a pretty face is the end all be all of a relationship? Piety means nothing. Committment means nothing. And then you all want to claim you are not simps, yeah right. You'll get mad if woman are vain, if they use their looks to get what they want, etc. but at the end of the day that's all you care about anyway. I'd have to guess that most things typed on here are just convenient banter.
Threads like this make me fully understand why some women are gold diggers, why they use men, etc. Because if they know at the end of the day that their personality traits and commitment doesn't matter when they get to a certain age and that it's all about looks, what's the point in even starting down that road with a man?
Dudes are in here vilifying a faithful woman who supported her husband through out his whole career because of her looks. All while saying nothing about this whore of a woman (who cheated on her own husband and family, btw) and in a sense "praising" her for her appearance, and ability to draw a man out of his marriage, by placing her above a woman who is actually a good person.
I seriously hope y'all brehs don't get married/pick women with this mentality.
It ain't about listening to me; but, not listening to her body.
But, I'll give you this; it's a failure to stay through; for better, for worse.
It's not as bad as cheating...it lacks the dishonesty and lack of respect of your partner.
But, that's why I'm not married...
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
no this isnt a fairytale
You know why women don't like to disclose their ages
Because as you age, your p*ssy power decreases....it goes
As if yalls dikk game doesn't fall off in your 30's...men start seeing huge decreases in testosterone and sexual performance around 35, while a woman is still sexually in her prime, so I guess more women need to step out for some young dikk
The problem is, people get complacent after getting their spouse/man/woman or whatever.
Physical attraction is something that will always be a focal point to infidelity. Yeah, you got married, you have kids, but if you don't care how you look, don't be surprised if your partner isn't as into you as they were when you were in shape.
Nobody should have to tell another person that they're getting
You need to look in the mirror and get your shyt together. If people took more care of themselves they would have better relationships real talk.
Physical attraction is something that will always be a focal point to infidelity. Yeah, you got married, you have kids, but if you don't care how you look, don't be surprised if your partner isn't as into you as they were when you were in shape.
Nobody should have to tell another person that they're getting
You need to look in the mirror and get your shyt together. If people took more care of themselves they would have better relationships real talk.
The problem is, people get complacent after getting their spouse/man/woman or whatever.
Physical attraction is something that will always be a focal point to infidelity. Yeah, you got married, you have kids, but if you don't care how you look, don't be surprised if your partner isn't as into you as they were when you were in shape.
Nobody should have to tell another person that they're getting
You need to look in the mirror and get your shyt together. If people took more care of themselves they would have better relationships real talk.
what about dudes who cheat on a good looking wife, for a ugly bytch?
Some dudes just can't control themselves breh. Karma is a bytch though.
I have a good friend who gets pretty girls all the time and cheats on them with girls who don't have shyt going for them and ain't even that hot. Me and friends just be like what are you doing fam?
His take is, he just wanna get all the cheating out of his system before he gets married.
Yeah, good luck with that.
Some guys just want a woman when ever they want one. They cheat because they can and they put themselves in position to do so.
It is what it is.
OG_StankBrefs
Da Spice...
What dat gym membership smell like? 
theGoldmangod
All Star
Even so, that is still not the same as this. It's in a man's natural instinct/biology to be a provider. The value we have placed on a woman's looks is strictly societally driven, meaning it's a complete social construct. The need a man feels to provide for his family and the need a woman has for security/protection will never go away. Looks? The media could change people's perception what's considered "attractive" or not within 5-10 years. There are tribes in Africa where bigger women are seen more beautiful. There's no tribe where men aren't seen/expected to be the ultimate providers, because it's an innate thing. The concept of beauty is a man made social construct.
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Honestly, this just goes back to the idea that men love hoes.
Grown ass men are really in here saying they'd betray a good person they've chosen to make a commitment to over a lifetime for a couple nuts with a pretty face?
And then you all wonder why a lot of women are dirty.
Threads like this make me fully understand why some women are gold diggers, why they use men, etc. Because if they know at the end of the day that their personality traits and commitment doesn't matter when they get to a certain age and that it's all about looks, what's the point in even starting down that road with a man?
Dudes are in here vilifying a faithful woman who supported her husband through out his whole career because of her looks. All while saying nothing about this whore of a woman (who cheated on her own husband and family, btw) and in a sense "praising" her for her appearance, and ability to draw a man out of his marriage, by placing her above a woman who is actually a good person.
I seriously hope y'all brehs don't get married/pick women with this mentality.
I fukk with this post, and generally I clown TLR nikkas for their stupidity when it comes to women and life in general.
But take it from a married man, when I heard about the story I felt no sympathy for the wife either, and I'm strongly against the "getting the most p*ssy is the most important thing in life" mantra that these other nikkas live by.
To me its an issue of respect. If my wife after as many years as we been together don't respect and love me enough to keep it tight for me like I'll try for her, leaving is not out of the question. I expect her to put on a little weight because she has my kids and that's natural when you get older, but this broad was
status. You can tell she wasn't trying.That said, I still think the dude Paetrus is the biggest bytch of the them all. If you're not man enough to tell your wife early when she starts letting herself go to cut that shyt out on some
shyt, you're not doing your job as a husband. And if she still keeps putting on weight and getting flabbier and sicker, a man should have enough respect for keeping his own integrity and divorce her, rather than being a disloyal snake and breaking his own word/vows. My balls and my word.
Not to mention this nikka was sending a thousand emails begging these broads and sharing classified information and shyt
You don't stop wanting sex at those ages breh, old ass seniors who are even older have ridiculously high STD rates, they gettin it in before they go in the ground. I'm just saying, it's hard to talk about that kind of situation if you're not in it. Like I said before, I have never cheated, but I'm not gonna sit here and say with utmost certainty that I wouldn't be tempted if my wife looked like one of the forefathers @ 60 while some average chick is getting at me.
It was just an analogy
Some dudes just can't control themselves breh. Karma is a bytch though.
I have a good friend who gets pretty girls all the time and cheats on them with girls who don't have shyt going for them and ain't even that hot. Me and friends just be like what are you doing fam?
His take is, he just wanna get all the cheating out of his system before he gets married.
Yeah, good luck with that.
Some guys just want a woman when ever they want one. They cheat because they can and they put themselves in position to do so.
It is what it is.
I don't think it has anything to do with the looks of the spouse or the other woman. Some dudes are just slaves to their dikk, if their dikk wants it they ignore all of the risks involved in getting it.
After the fact they make up excuses and blame their wife, but in reality they just made a stupid decision. If a man doesn't like what his wife is doing he will tell her to fix it, if she doesn't fix it, he will leave.