I don’t know how y’all african brehs do it

[LurkMoar]

Congolese

I can already tell the proportions crazy, 20 grand over 30 is too much tho cmon now

 

[3rdWorld]

It's become a business now..Fathers cant wait to have daughters so he can make bank marrying them off..

Initially the bride price was calculated in heads of cattle..then somewhere along the way, some cultures substituted cattle for cash and thats where the rot began.

 

[Bushmaster69]

so south africa is where I'd want to book my flight?

South Africa maybe..

Have you been to Africa before? Because if you haven't I wouldn't recommend a breh visit SA first.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

My homie about to get married but her moms asking for 20,000 dollars for the dowry. They’ve only known each other for 6 months.

Why you feel sorry? It's tradition. Makes sure that the groom is in it for the right reasons and can secure his family. People spend that much of frivolous wedding shyt. Put it down as part of the cost of the wedding. Plus maybe he shouldn't have proposed that fast.

Strong traditions keep community.

 

[audemarzz]

Well African guys actually have the money so

Congolese have what money?

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Imagine doing all that to get divorced in 3 years. . They need to leave traditions in the past that shyt outdated.

Nope

Maintaining tradition keeps those communities alive. Africans going to those lengths marrying into those traditional families are not about divorce.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

I’m not even going to entertain such a stupid fukking question .

We all know if you could choose your perfect woman like a video game she would be a virgin and I’m not about to lie and simp to impress the women of the coli

Believe it or not, modern men prefer their women to be "broken in". And I'm not just talking about buss downs. Many dudes will only wife a woman who has had extensive experience with other men. Every time you hear "I expect my wife to be good in bed", that's what they're telling you.

In traditional cultures, this would be a form of cuckoldry.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

You think that because you never got p*ssy before. I'm not saying wife a thot, but wifing a dead fish who don't what the fukk to do is an L
sex with virgins is awful

That's because you're being very shortsighted breh. If y'all are married for years, maybe even decades, that's plenty of time to grow and develop good sexual chemistry. Of course it's going to be awful in the beginning, but it's not supposed to stay that way

But ppl nowadays want instant gratification and we generally lack patience.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

These low value men couldn’t handle a virgin anyway. They will say things like ‘no hymen no diamond’ but put a virgin in front of them and they won’t even believe she is one. Or if they do believe it, they’ll find her weird for never having sex.

Put a virgin in their bed. They won’t know how to handle her having problems with penetration, not enjoying the sex because she’s new, her being sexually frigid and shy, her not being able to throw it back on the D. They laugh when you try to explain vaginismus to them.

These modern day men that demand virgins just talk out of their ass.

True. Most modern men ain't built for traditional relationships tbh. It is what it is

Helping a woman become comfortable with, explore and develop her sexuality is supposed to create a strong bond between a couple. But it requires patience which most modern ppl in general lack. The ideal woman for most men is a woman who is very experienced in bed yet these are the same women they despise the most.

 

[Action Mike]

No she ain’t no virgin and she over 30.

Helllllll no

What a shytty deal

 

[F*ckthemkids]

20k for some ran through westernized tilapia flavored roast beef? Tell your boy to counteroffer with a superstore gift card.

 

[Hazel Brown]

True. Most modern men ain't built for traditional relationships tbh. It is what it is

Helping a woman become comfortable with, explore and develop her sexuality is supposed to create a strong bond between a couple. But it requires patience which most modern ppl in general lack. The ideal woman for most men is a woman who is very experienced in bed yet these are the same women they despise the most.

These contradictory mfs want a woman that can fukk like a porn star with a body count of less than one.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

I'm Ghanaian, we ain't doing that shyt. Only way this happens is if I marry a woman from Africa that wants a green card. Then I might get paid about $30k

Tribe?

 

[The_Sheff]

Y’all got it flipped. The Dowry is supposed to be paid TO the groom not BY the groom.

 

[MikelArteta]

ish is stupid