I don't know how much more death I can deal with!!

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This shyt is getting crazy I never experienced anything like this on top of my sister passing in December. Last Monday my Uncle D (my father side) died from a sudden heart attack and now just last night my Aunt (my mom sister) died suddenly from covid and to add on to it my mom other sister is hospitalized with Covid.

So my whole family both sides are just fukked up right now. I have no idea how to deal with this.


When I was in my teens, I lost a good chunk of my family and also one of my best friends also committed suicide during that same period so I feel you on losing so many at one time. I got a grief therapist shortly thereafter to help me work through all the pain and it helped. Prayers to you breh and my condolences on the loss of your loved ones.
 

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This shyt is getting crazy I never experienced anything like this on top of my sister passing in December. Last Monday my Uncle D (my father side) died from a sudden heart attack and now just last night my Aunt (my mom sister) died suddenly from covid and to add on to it my mom other sister is hospitalized with Covid.

So my whole family both sides are just fukked up right now. I have no idea how to deal with this.
I know it’s seems corny or cliche. But a personal relationship God and prayer can help.
 

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RIP to them and condolences. Grieve them as much as you have to. There's no "formula" or "right way" to deal with death. if you want to scream scream. If you want to cry cry. If you want to not see anyone for a whole day do that. You just have to go through it, and the sadness will always be there somewhere inside of you. But be sure that somehow, someway, it will get better. And eventually you'll be able to live with it and enjoy life again fully.
 

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When I was in my teens, I lost a good chunk of my family and also one of my best friends also committed suicide during that same period so I feel you on losing so many at one time. I got a grief therapist shortly thereafter to help me work through all the pain and it helped. Prayers to you breh and my condolences on the loss of your loved ones.

Thank you my brother I really appreciate that.
 

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Man just got finished visiting my moms my other Aunt is on 100% oxygen and we know the deal once they can't breathe it's ventilator time.
Momma luv told me my Aunt CeCe was only on 60% and she died.
Cathy got all types of underlying conditions.

Im about to get fukked up tonight so i type some incoherent shyt tonight you already know.
 
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Oh damn my fault I'm out of it all I saw was Cyrus:snoop:

No problem at all. I admire how much you are there for your relatives even though it's extremely difficult right now. I'm keeping you and your family in prayer and am so sorry ya'll are going through so much.

One of my favorite Bible verses that helps me in painful times...

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This shyt is getting crazy I never experienced anything like this on top of my sister passing in December. Last Monday my Uncle D (my father side) died from a sudden heart attack and now just last night my Aunt (my mom sister) died suddenly from covid and to add on to it my mom other sister is hospitalized with Covid.

So my whole family both sides are just fukked up right now. I have no idea how to deal with this.
Both parents and all grandparents gone. Half of my aunts and uncles gone. Older brother gone. Handful of cousins gone. Couple of classmates have either passed away or been murdered. Same with people I've met in adult life, some passed to illness, accidents, or in several worst cases murder. I'm not even 40

You have to realize death is apart of living. Everyone dies when it's their time. If u live long enough, you will see everyone you know or came into contact with pass away.

Don't cry, because the body that person inhabited may not be here, but the soul lives forever. They've moved on to the next level, and you will join them when it's your time. Dont be sad. Celebrate that individuals life and remember that's as long as you remember that person, their spirit still exists here on Earth.

My deepest sympathies to and your family. Just know u not alone and help is available if u need it.
 

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Both parents and all grandparents gone. Half of my aunts and uncles gone. Older brother gone. Handful of cousins gone. Couple of classmates have either passed away or been murdered. Same with people I've met in adult life, some passed to illness, accidents, or in several worst cases murder. I'm not even 40

You have to realize death is apart of living. Everyone dies when it's their time. If u live long enough, you will see everyone you know or came into contact with pass away.

Don't cry, because the body that person inhabited may not be here, but the soul lives forever. They've moved on to the next level, and you will join them when it's your time. Dont be sad. Celebrate that individuals life and remember that's as long as you remember that person, their spirit still exists here on Earth.

My deepest sympathies to and your family. Just know u not alone and help is available if u need it.

Thank you bruh I appreciate it man just trying to stay strong for my people.

But it's surreal i never had death on both sides of the family so close before everyone fukked up man.
 
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