I can't stop thinking about the guy that my wife slept with. Does it ever get better?

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he needs to take some money out of savings and fukk a FINE FINE FINE ASS hooker on tape after taking 2 viagra raw dog and make sure she squirts. make the wife watch with her eyelids taped open. then he will feel better.
 

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The story sounds like it was made-up by a bored coli troll.

nah breh, you ever been cheated on by someone u been with for a while? was cheated on by a shorty i was with for over 5 years. the little stuff like this is wehat hits you out of no where. for me, the nikka she cheated on me with out of state looked like shia lebouf. when we watched transformers the same shyt popped in my head:stopitslime::martin:. it happens. different for every case.

If your woman cheats, no matter how much it hurts, no matter how many kids leave.

Life is to short to be wondering daily if she's cheating on you again


talking for experience this is true.:snoop: youll feel better once youre free and fukking new p*ssy:smugdraper:
 

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nah breh, you ever been cheated on by someone u been with for a while? was cheated on by a shorty i was with for over 5 years. the little stuff like this is wehat hits you out of no where. for me, the nikka she cheated on me with out of state looked like shia lebouf. when we watched transformers the same shyt popped in my head. it happens. different for every case.
Wow.
Foot long hot dogs and now, the Transformers movie.
 

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At least it makes sense. I caught the worst ether. I got fukked around on by my ex with a cac with a smaller dikk. :yeshrug:

Can't make this shyt up. :francis:
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To add on to that story. It was way worse than what dude imagines and way more than twice.
I know the feeling too well breh.

Found out my BM fukked some dude she worked with, found out 3 months later.

bytch went out and bought me a ps4 and a vita the next day too. I thought it was some random act of kindness, then I found out she had a guilty conscience.

:francis:
 

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I know the feeling too well breh.

Found out my BM fukked some dude she worked with, found out 3 months later.

bytch went out and bought me a ps4 and a vita the next day too. I thought it was some random act of kindness, then I found out she had a guilty conscience.

:francis:
It's always some dude they work with.
 

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Get married brehs

Last week it ticked over 3 years since DDay. I have stated here before that I am now much better, stronger etc and that is true. But I haven't forgotten the date have I and the mind movies are still there. The triggers are everywhere.

I think about what happened every day. I still want to get that f**ker even though I f**ked him over right royally with the revelations to his wife. It's never enough - it's that intoxicating. I've got some distance now, some perspective and I feel I'm on top of it - but am I really?

There was no reconciliation, there was false recon. I live in the same home as this woman because we owe a truckload to the bank - think 400 K !, and there is that little issue about teenage children.

The other thing is my age and health - I have really cleaned up my act but I have some serious but manageable health issues. All of this ads up to not having the necessary desire or drive to exit, to disrupt this thing called family as tenuous as our situation may be.

Quite frankly I am p*ssed off at myself but I am doing this for my children.

My exWS is not capable of true remorse and still harbors fantasies about her AP - I'm sure.

Think about this - some time back, a year or more, we tried for a recon, the second time since DDay. I went with her to her best GF's home where we caught up with a stack of people that she has known over the years. There was a bloke there who had traveled from interstate. I recognised him from their FB circle of friends - I knew his name. He had known my ex WS and her friends from way back - before he left Sydney

We got on quite well and later on he gave me a bottle of his home brewed bourbon. It was bloody good. After that we friended on FB, just for the hell of it.

About a week later I was perusing my ex's FB page, as I had done since DDay. There was a PM from this ahole encouraging my ex to go to a website and view pictures of him. This request was after some flirty banter about how they had been attracted to each other back in the day. Then he said to her that he was taking a risk and she could unfriend him if she liked but the fact was he did not like wearing clothes!

So I'm thinking nudist site etc. I check out the site. There before me were at least 50 pics of this POS holding his manhood.

Later she replied to him - "all good, no need to de-friend"

Then I get a PM asking me "How was the bourbon"? Wow, didn't I give that scum bag a rocket. From that point he de-friended me, my ex and her whole group of friends. Good riddance to a low life POS who stood there and looked me in the face at a barbecue all the while with designs on my ex.

The point is - we were supposed to be in recon. She never said a word, not a thing. And that's because she's a lying POS who is still ready to be vacuumed up depending on the situation.

I didn't say a word either - just silently dumped the recon right there and then. She didn't bat an eyelid because it meant nothing to her.

The whole experience took me back months - it was a relapse. And that's the thing you will always relapse into that state to some degree; probably until you are six feet under.
 

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At least it makes sense. I caught the worst ether. I got fukked around on by my ex with a cac with a smaller dikk. :yeshrug:

Can't make this shyt up. :francis:

goes to show it could be anything.

Having a big dikk and tons of money is not the answer. If someone has issues they will find a reason to be self destructive.
I was with a self destructive chic before, I know.
 
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