"I Can Grow to Love Him"

[Mac Brown]

@ OP how old is this chick?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I feel sorry for anyone who is with someone that settled for them. That's a very selfish decision.

 

[SouthernBelle]

She should save him for someone who wants him. She is doing what a lot of men encourage..not overlooking the nerdy, good guy just because he doesn't fit a certain image.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I feel sorry for anyone who is with someone that settled for them. That's a very selfish decision.

RIGHT! Who wants to be second best?!

 

[Lana Kane]

Pretty much. Seems like she was dogged by men in the past, so now she's doing the same to this guy.

 

[Desirous]

True. It's so sad when people let negativity change them into a bitter or heartless person instead of teaching them to just be more cautious and selective with whom they open themselves to.

 

[Rominati]

The untold story of a thousand men

5:00

 

[Remote]

I really don't care why someone is with another person.
Whether they think they can grow to love them or whether they're genuinely in love.

The reality is, sometimes people can grow to love others.
And there's enough evidence (just look around) that people grow to NOT love the people they are with, too.

So on SOME level, it's all bullshyt.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Chalk it as "part of tha game." Ain't that what all the kiddos say?

 

[Desirous]

I really don't care why someone is with another person.
Whether they think they can grow to love them or whether they're genuinely in love.

The reality is, sometimes people can grow to love others.
And there's enough evidence (just look around) that people grow to NOT love the people they are with, too.

So on SOME level, it's all bullshyt.

That usually happens naturally though. In this case, sounds like she's trying to force it because he looks good on paper.

 

[Remote]

That usually happens naturally though. In this case, sounds like she's trying to force it because he looks good on paper.

I had a moment of cynicism. I guess I agree with you.
It IS a bit different when things happen naturally.

I guess I'll just say that two other people getting together really has nothing to do with me, so their reasons...while I may not agree with them personally, I wouldn't get too worked up about them.

 

[Singh]

another one bites the dust, rip simp

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Sucks when people settle just to avoid being lonely.

This.

Sounds like it's not going to last anyways.
You don't grow to love someone. You're either attracted to them or you're not.

What's the point of forcing a relationship?

 

[StarClout]

 

[Diondon]

That's like 70% of simp relationships.