CreepyMcCreeperson
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Then when black women marry white men, y’all get mad.
How many of you guys have given up on marriage?
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Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
Been married for 7 years now. I got lucky. My Wife is my best friend. I look forward to talking to her everyday when I’m gone.
She’s feminine, has a phatty, did the self work, birthed my next generation, is an amazing Mom, knows how to cook, and will become a lawyer when I come home for good.
She has her quirks as all people do, but she is loyal and down for our family. I lucked up because I just saw the person and her qualities. I didn’t consider marriage and what that entails.
Would I do it again? Naw, I’d just get an old lady to die with haha. GMB
She’s feminine, has a phatty, did the self work, birthed my next generation, is an amazing Mom, knows how to cook, and will become a lawyer when I come home for good.
She has her quirks as all people do, but she is loyal and down for our family. I lucked up because I just saw the person and her qualities. I didn’t consider marriage and what that entails.
Would I do it again? Naw, I’d just get an old lady to die with haha. GMB
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Areas with high levels of marriage for Black folks tend to be those with high levels of education and economic success:
Highest and Lowest Counties in the US for Black Marriage
@Suge Shot Me So here is another data exercise---which counties have the highest and lowest marriage proportions for Black folks. There is an alternate way to calculate this using birth and census data rather than just raw census data. If you look at fertility, the proportion of kiddos born in...
Don't chase the fat ass or the magical girl who will 'submit'. Find the girl willing to rock and build with you and similar values (plus sexual chemistry) and marriage will seem much more appealing.
Honestly, I think from your comments you may want to try dating slightly older women off the BS if these young chick's are nuts.
The landscape has changed from your bachelor years. Women’s expectations have evolved into group think via social re-enforced algorithms. The narcissism, lack of self examination and solipism is rife with this cohort of women.
Make your money, strap up, run these streets and if you want marriage then either build a Time Machine or convert to Islam and move PERMANENTLY to a Muslim country
beenz
Rap Guerilla
When I got married back in the day it was fine, cuz neither of us had shyt. Plus we already had a one year old.
Fast forward many years later and we not together. At this point I've amassed too much tangible wealth that took decades to get to risk having too lose half of it if a marriage didn't work out. I'm too old to be starting over for a third time.
My girl was just telling me about a former coworker who's going thru a divorce where not only will he be paying child support, but he's been put out three crib while still being forced to pay the mortgage. Plus lawyers already cost him damn near 20k. She's gonna take half his 401k and he's still got a good 15 more years on child support. Now he's living with his mom. Eventually his house will have to be sold, but he's getting taken to the cleaners regardless.
Fast forward many years later and we not together. At this point I've amassed too much tangible wealth that took decades to get to risk having too lose half of it if a marriage didn't work out. I'm too old to be starting over for a third time.
My girl was just telling me about a former coworker who's going thru a divorce where not only will he be paying child support, but he's been put out three crib while still being forced to pay the mortgage. Plus lawyers already cost him damn near 20k. She's gonna take half his 401k and he's still got a good 15 more years on child support. Now he's living with his mom. Eventually his house will have to be sold, but he's getting taken to the cleaners regardless.