O.T.I.S.
Veteran
NoAll clear on two phones.
I don't know how people live like that, you see some shyt like 87 missed calls from some girl I know the other day. Like what is that about? Or some guy I know 107 unread text messages. It does point to who people are I think. Avoidance, inflated ego.
1) I answer every call that comes in, as it comes, return missed calls as soon as available
2 ) I clear every text as it comes in
3) almost zero group chats
4) I only want key people calling or texting me for specific reasons
for the people with all the misses, you aren't curious AT ALL what's on the other end of those calls? There's no money? There's no connection? Then what the fukk are these people calling or texting for? Who the fukk are those people calling you? I do think that I am not in the norm on this.
If it’s important, they’ll leave a message.
If it’s really important, they would’ve sent an email first.
Texts I don’t know get reported and deleted. Group texts may get looked at but no response, every other text I try to respond to in a timely fashion.
But I do not live on my phone. Most of the time it might not even be next to me. If It’s not important, or I don’t have a response, I wait until I do