How many brehs “settled” for their girlfriend / wife? Do you regret it?
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Y'all live in a different world then I do....
Most of y'all talking about "yes, we settle but u cant do better. You got what u was supposed to get"
That's a settling ass nikkaz mentality.
Which is cool ... As long as u remind yourself everyday that you settled for that bytch ..
And that life then Cool.
Cause when she starts acting fly, you can move accordingly
Most of y'all talking about "yes, we settle but u cant do better. You got what u was supposed to get"
That's a settling ass nikkaz mentality.
Which is cool ... As long as u remind yourself everyday that you settled for that bytch ..
And that life then Cool.
Cause when she starts acting fly, you can move accordingly
You'll never get a perfect person they will be flawed in someway you can get a bad bytch but shes a headache or your can get an average chick that gives you peace and treats you like gold and will suck the soul out of you in a good way.
damn!
Killigraphy
Banned
Its never as ridiculous as a fantasy is described, its always a butterface pornstar with fake t*ts or a big ass...I sit there thinking "well shyt, you can get that in Brazil or Puerto Rico". These men literally jerk it to broads slightly above average...that's the point, its the complete opposite of their wives, but not by much....
NEVER EVER SETTLE!!!
My first girl was the BOMB, banging body!!
She honestly was perfect in every way, did everything I told her to do, I had complete control over her, she did whatever I told her to do and never wanted to see me angry.
But she was my first, so I couldn't stay with her, I wanted to try different fish.
She had the best p*ssy out of all girls too!
Then my second girl, also did everything I told her to, never said no sexually to anything.
We went out for, I don't fukkin remember how long, maybe 1.5yrs....
Towards the end of the relationship she wouldn't let me control her enough anymore, so I ended it.
Then my 3rd girl, she did everything I told her to but I wasn't down with how she dressed and she wouldn't listen.
She wanted to continue the relationship and be okay with us keep fighting over how she dressed.
I wasn't okay with it.
Then my 4th, 5th etc....
I did not settle!
Then finally I matured, found a girl that was/is successful in life, very intelligent, does handy work around the house, cooks great.
And now...... getting divorced after 3 kids.
So I didn't settle, found a new girl as soon as I saw her I knew I wanted to marry her and I did.
And it was not my best decision, but I didn't settle.
So the moral of the story is..... well I guess there isn't one
My first girl was the BOMB, banging body!!
She honestly was perfect in every way, did everything I told her to do, I had complete control over her, she did whatever I told her to do and never wanted to see me angry.
But she was my first, so I couldn't stay with her, I wanted to try different fish.
She had the best p*ssy out of all girls too!
Then my second girl, also did everything I told her to, never said no sexually to anything.
We went out for, I don't fukkin remember how long, maybe 1.5yrs....
Towards the end of the relationship she wouldn't let me control her enough anymore, so I ended it.
Then my 3rd girl, she did everything I told her to but I wasn't down with how she dressed and she wouldn't listen.
She wanted to continue the relationship and be okay with us keep fighting over how she dressed.
I wasn't okay with it.
Then my 4th, 5th etc....
I did not settle!
Then finally I matured, found a girl that was/is successful in life, very intelligent, does handy work around the house, cooks great.
And now...... getting divorced after 3 kids.
So I didn't settle, found a new girl as soon as I saw her I knew I wanted to marry her and I did.
And it was not my best decision, but I didn't settle.
So the moral of the story is..... well I guess there isn't one
Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
NEVER EVER SETTLE!!!
My first girl was the BOMB, banging body!!
She honestly was perfect in every way, did everything I told her to do, I had complete control over her, she did whatever I told her to do and never wanted to see me angry.
But she was my first, so I couldn't stay with her, I wanted to try different fish.
She had the best p*ssy out of all girls too!
Then my second girl, also did everything I told her to, never said no sexually to anything.
We went out for, I don't fukkin remember how long, maybe 1.5yrs....
Towards the end of the relationship she wouldn't let me control her enough anymore, so I ended it.
Then my 3rd girl, she did everything I told her to but I wasn't down with how she dressed and she wouldn't listen.
She wanted to continue the relationship and be okay with us keep fighting over how she dressed.
I wasn't okay with it.
Then my 4th, 5th etc....
I did not settle!
Then finally I matured, found a girl that was/is successful in life, very intelligent, does handy work around the house, cooks great.
And now...... getting divorced after 3 kids.
So I didn't settle, found a new girl as soon as I saw her I knew I wanted to marry her and I did.
And it was not my best decision, but I didn't settle.
So the moral of the story is..... well I guess there isn't one
This isnt a good example of never settling.
It just means that you had relationships that reached logical conclusions.
Settling IMo is staying in a relationship that goes against a value or position that you hold dear out of a sense of comfort and fear of the unknown/being lonely.
We always champion this idea of never settling when in fact, you can be dead ass wrong for "not settling" for your partner (our society has just started being open about the idea of relationship dysfunction being linked to self dysfunction).
Im not trying to shyt on u, but instead of telling people to not settle, ask them (and yourself);
1. what aspects of a relationship matter to you?
2. WHY do they matter to you?
3. Are they worth ending a relationship over if the person does everything else exceptionally? Is it something improbable to overcome or something your partner cannot or will not change?
Too often we treat perfectly good people and relationships as disposable.
No one "settles", you have what you could secure.
This. Honestly, it doesn't even guarantee that a woman on your level will even be interested in you.
This. Women delusional as hell nowdays.
MajesticLion
Veteran
What price loyalty?
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
Not everyone
My cousin like 6'6
Married his high school sweetheart
She bad too
Good ass degree and job
Could have any degree he want
Look like Lawrence off Insecure
Some ppl are just that man/woman