How long does it take you to get over someone you loved?

[Birdie]

I don't fall in love hard nor do I stay in it long so I move on pretty quickly. Getting over the first girl I liked wasn't difficult since she went from being a generally good person into the typical hoodrat, now she's a single mother.

 

[Ohene]

beware of talking to new girls breh. its a lot of bullshyt out here

 

[DaRealness]

It took me about 2 years, but then I was married so...

 

[the cool]

She cheated on me and got pregnant

god damn homie i feel your pain. fukk that bytch.......and she got pregnant?

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

However long it takes to build yourself back up. The time we need to get over someone depends on how much you gave of yourself. We dont realize it but over time, all the fights and compromises and arguments and sacrifices you make change you. Drain you. You have to focus on rebuilding yourself. Getting back to being you.

It doesnt take me long at all to get over someone I loved because ive learned not to give too much of myself to anyone. When I see the signs - the fights about things we already fought about, the irrational jealousy, the evasive answers etc I see we're growing apart instead of growing together and start slowly moving towards rebuilding myself and moving on. They do it to us and thats why it hurts so bad. We dont deal with things being over until its really over. Men just leave, women check out mentally, get over you, set up the next victim and then leave.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

I still have hope for me and @awkwardblackgirl

If I was your girlfriend, would you run to me if somebody hurt you? Even if that somebody was me?

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

If I was your girlfriend, would you run to me if somebody hurt you? Even if that somebody was me?

yes

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

yes

Prove it

 

[whatthatthangsmelllike]

Never again

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

if i was to put a number on it, i'd say it's takes exactly 4 one-night stands to get over someone

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Prove it

I got you

 

[Paradise]

It took almost a year. I can safely say that I date now.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Shoot son I dated a chick for 4-5 months, we never had the title of being together, ain't even smash and I still think about her almost every day.

I go to sleep and wake up fantasizing about smashing .

If you about that life, best way for you to get over her is to smash as many attractive women as possible, even casually date one or two. I've holla'd at a couple chicks after her but none of it grew into anything so I'm still not over her entirely

 

[Yo Mama]

Depends on why you broke up.

But a few gays...?

 

[SheWantTheD]

Left my ex over 13 years ago...still not over it.
She was made specifically for me.
Her family married her off to someone else.
We were supposed to start a tribe together.
Now she belongs to the game...and I belong to someone else.
Both of our lights shine dimmer, apart.
And the longing...hollow...emptiness...persists for us both.