Yeah, don't create a false dilemma to save your ego. People can have more than one thing going for them. But us muscular fellas are highly resented by the likes of you, and judged by how misc'ers behave. "Oh he's muscular, he's overcompensating", "he's a dumb brute".... no, maybe we just enjoy lifting weights.
The guys I know that I used weight train with were not too bright. I'm just saying, sorry if I offended.