How Does One Recover From The Loss I Just Took?

[Cole Cash]

man this mfukker was my right hand man for a minute. he got a lady too. apparently when his lady left, she told my ex to watch dude and she was like "oh yeah i got him dont worry girl"... both these people need to get burried... ima let karma handle it, but god damn its tempting

You know what, to keep it real this is all trivial, she wasnt your girl, and if he wants to cheat, let him cheat, he actually did you a favor by showing you what kind of slut shes willing to be.

He can still be your right hand man, if you invest time and energy into being upset about it there will be no reprieve. Its up to you if you wanna keep him as your friend. It doesnt mean he aint there for you, but a ho is a ho.

Let the experience shape your next move, but IMO your next move should be nothing. No need to call her, and just talk to your boy, tell him to come clean, let him know you aint even mad, even if you are, get to the bottom of it and move on.

 

[OPTiMO]

You know what, to keep it real this is all trivial, she wasnt your girl, and if he wants to cheat, let him cheat, he actually did you a favor by showing you what kind of slut shes willing to be.

He can still be your right hand man, if you invest time and energy into being upset about it there will be no reprieve. Its up to you if you wanna keep him as your friend. It doesnt mean he aint there for you, but a ho is a ho.

Let the experience shape your next move, but IMO your next move should be nothing. No need to call her, and just talk to your boy, tell him to come clean, let him know you aint even mad, even if you are, get to the bottom of it and move on.

feel you 100

BUT, what made me lose all respect for this dude is, I called him after I found out (from random folks who know about it), and he denied that shyt like a bytch. I told him straight up, tell me whats good and ill have a BIT of respect for you, but son continued to deny it. He eventually admitted it to his chick, but was too scared to tell me

p*ssy ass, shady folks mayne

 

[Cole Cash]

feel you 100

BUT, what made me lose all respect for this dude is, I called him after I found out (from random folks who know about it), and he denied that shyt like a bytch. I told him straight up, tell me whats good and ill have a BIT of respect for you, but son continued to deny it. He eventually admitted it to his chick, but was too scared to tell me

p*ssy ass, shady folks mayne

Man Ill say it like this. You might say "shady folks" but all of us have done something shady, maybe not this exact thing, but to some extent, something fukked up. Thats why you see me so nonchalant about what you are typing, everyone, including yourself, will fukk up, sometimes royally. Its the guilt that caused him to deny it in the first place, if hes scared to say something its because he has a sense of remorse.

Thats why i said, its your choice to keep him around, even if you have lost respect. Im sure in your time you have lost someone elses respect, maybe you got it back, maybe you didint. But dont invest too much in this, youll be ok.

 

[OPTiMO]

Man Ill say it like this. You might say "shady folks" but all of us have done something shady, maybe not this exact thing, but to some extent, something fukked up. Thats why you see me so nonchalant about what you are typing, everyone, including yourself, will fukk up, sometimes royally. Its the guilt that caused him to deny it in the first place, if hes scared to say something its because he has a sense of remorse.

Thats why i said, its your choice to keep him around, even if you have lost respect. Im sure in your time you have lost someone elses respect, maybe you got it back, maybe you didint. But dont invest too much in this, youll be ok.

you right, you right

 

[livindajetlife]

Yeah bro.. cut both them em off.. they did some grimey shyt.. in your crib at that.. shyt im gettin pissed for u cuz thats foul as fukk

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

hooking up is one thing, but in your house? nope...

 

[Grano-Grano]

Salute that nikka for opening your eyes up to the hoe.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Salute that nikka for opening your eyes up to the hoe.

This pos rep to you sir

 

[Silkk]

Kick Them Squares Up Out Your Circle. Its Only Goin Get Worser

 

[kingdizzy01]

fukk his girl or one of your ex's relatives

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

fukked up.

When it came to your "friend" two things were at play; the first was this, when a chick is unattached she's fair game. And two, get it while the getting is good. If you and your boy were close he probably already knew you were trying to get with the chick again and wanted to take advantage before you could make it official again.

The chick was probably turned on by the fact that, hey, your homeboy is willing to basically fukk you over to fukk her. In a young bytch's stupid and twisted mindset, that makes her valuable. Plus, young chicks just love to engage in or be in the vicinity of bad behavior or other brands of fukkery.

As a man, your friend should have known and done better. The bytch is a bytch and if it weren't him it'd have been some other person or animal. You can thank your boy for opening your eyes to that. Both deserve to have their teeth punched into their anus though.

 

[KillaFnCam]

Yea cut em both off. The girl more than the friend. But that shyt was on some nother level fukked up. I could understand if you rearranged his face making him look

 

[Fredrick Thuglas]

cut them off. it's cheaper.

c/s...if you loyal then all this means is you have two less people to worry about being loyal to.

Also, what do you mean by "hook-up" cause Im not sure if you're white or not but I think white ppl mean "kiss" when they say that...or do you mean he fukked her?

 

[Commander in Chiefin]

Cut em both off. They both disrespected you in your own crib. If you let it slide and let either of them continue in your life, it shows that you don't respect yourself. And they'll fukk you over again down the line somewhere.

 

[NoCones]

fukked up.

When it came to your "friend" two things were at play; the first was this, when a chick is unattached she's fair game. And two, get it while the getting is good. If you and your boy were close he probably already knew you were trying to get with the chick again and wanted to take advantage before you could make it official again.

The chick was probably turned on by the fact that, hey, your homeboy is willing to basically fukk you over to fukk her. In a young bytch's stupid and twisted mindset, that makes her valuable. Plus, young chicks just love to engage in or be in the vicinity of bad behavior or other brands of fukkery.

As a man, your friend should have known and done better. The bytch is a bytch and if it weren't him it'd have been some other person or animal. You can thank your boy for opening your eyes to that. Both deserve to have their teeth punched into their anus though.