how do you get over the guilt of breaking up with someone

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Fell in love with this girl. We were together for 18 months, she started to talk about marriage, buying her a ring and all of that crap. I told her I don't plan on getting married anytime soon and didn't want her to wait for me, so I broke up with her.

Now I feel like shyt.
 

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guilt is for the weak you put yourself first congrats, better than to string along someone.
 
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Fell in love with this girl. We were together for 18 months, she started to talk about marriage, buying her a ring and all of that crap. I told her I don't plan on getting married anytime soon and didn't want her to wait for me, so I broke up with her.

Now I feel like shyt.

if i love a girl, i'm not breaking up with her..

:patrice: maybe you shoulda spoke more about why you didn't wanna get married as of yet with her so she could have a clear understanding :manny:

oh and if she has no gag reflex... :ufdup:
 

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I still kinda feel that guilt


I broke up with this chick I was seing for about 8 months because her friends kept on throwing herself at me and I subconsciously thought I could do better....which I could have. I still feel bad about it....Like I remember coming to her house after work the day before my birthday.....oh shyt thats actually exactly two years ago.

Anyways we made some small talk and I broke up with her and I tried to say lets still be friends. She tried to be strong and mature but on my way out when she closed the doors on me I could see the tears streaming down from her face.

I dont know why I still feel so bad about it because chicks have did way worse to me.
 

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seriously tho...dont dwell on it move on and go smash something breh

take heed to not dwelling on it cuz that sh!t can eat away and burn a mans soul like Ether until you are withered and grey
 
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Do you really think these women feel guilty when they are sleeping with multiple men and keeping you as a side piece? Maybe she is not like that but that's just life. Just move on and date someone else. If you're not ready to get married, you did her a favor by dumping her.
 

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Do cocaine and fukk asian whores. :yeshrug: yolo it up


Lol jp, but keep yourself occupied. It may be 2 months or 12... just keep pushing forward.
 
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I loved a girl but had to break up with her because she was pushing for marriage and I dont ever want to get married. I had to set her free brehs.

yea if she forcing you to do some shyt you don't wanna do, even after communication then it's a different ballgame. she leaves you no other choices :manny:
 
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