how do you get over someone you had feelings for?

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tell us your story bruh no judging here :wow:

lets just say that i was getting to know a female and i thought highly of her (still do on certain levels); but her actions and ways keep me from even trying to pursue anything.(went from being mad cool to having a falling out due to her misintrepting me......i liked shorty as a friend but the things i was telling her made it seem like i want to pursue a relationship) its funny because i got mad female friends and a little lady friend but i think of this gurl seldomly. its like i see things in her, that she doesn't see in her goddamn self. I mean i wanted to be a friend to her but its like so much high school like games she plays until it like you know what "on to the next one". games are what XBOX 360 and PS4 were made for

I mean for all i know she may have a bf, but if in case she do; let me know......she just was playing games breh and it went from me being that dude that sweet talk her to the point i have to raise my voice or even argue over the phone. Which is something i dont do; if i have to raise my voice too many time i dont even need to be with you. The thing is With no boundaries set you liable to perceived things the way you want to perceived them (in her case).....assumptions and misinterpretations.
 
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lets just say that i was getting to know a female and i thought highly of her (still do on certain levels); but her actions and ways keep me from even trying to pursue anything.(went from being mad cool to having a falling out due to her misintrepting me......i liked shorty as a friend but the things i was telling her made it seem like i want to pursue a relationship) its funny because i got mad female friends and a little lady friend but i think of this gurl seldomly. its like i see things in her, that she doesn't see in her goddamn self. I mean i wanted to be a friend to her but its like so much high school like games she plays until it like you know what "on to the next one". games are what XBOX 360 and PS4 were made for

I mean for all i know she may have a bf, but if in case she do; let me know......she just was playing games breh and it went from me being that dude that sweet talk her to the point i have to raise my voice or even argue over the phone. Which is something i dont do; if i have to raise my voice too many time i dont even need to be with you. The thing is With no boundaries set you liable to perceived things the way you want to perceived them (in her case).....assumptions and misinterpretations.

my homie fist. you right about the last part. miscommunication on her part breh
 

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Don't contact her ever again.
Don't be friends
Travel
Realize they ain't all that
 

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Stop talking about her
Stop looking at her Instagram and Facebook
Hit the gym
Get some nicer clothing
Stay fresh, get a new whip if you can
Get on Match and POF
Stay Active
Keep living
Keep your house and car clean
Keep your hair and body clean and neat
Start talking to random people when you out and about (like at the grocery store, ask a chick about some good dishes to make) unless in DC, they don't cook here.


Just try everything, before you know, time will pass, youll date a flyer chick and be a flyer, more wiser ex simp. :salute:
 

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How would you know? :lupe:

It's a long story, I'll make it short. This couple found me wounded in the woods, they took me into their home, the man's wife nurse me back to health, I fall in love with the wife and then I became envious of her life with her husband, because I knew I could never have her, so I burned their house down and I killed her husband and I accidentally kill her, she got in the cross fire, I'm so sorry god forgive me.:to:
 
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