How do you feel about your sig other's social media followers?

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If he was a Coli member BEFORE we dated that's one thing, but inviting him here to post? Nah, I'm good. It's not about hiding anything, it's just that most people here are foul as shyt. Imagine Binary's BF posting here...you know some nikka is going to PM him and tell him that his girl shyt on herself or throw all types of shade just because it's her. It's not a "friendly" posting environment.

:to: IT'S NOT TRUE DAMN IT :damn:
 

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And fukk these hoes at the club. If I'm going to worry about someone, it's the bytch at the work. In an environment where he may be the only good prospect, where she can make him food for the potluck, have personal convos with or go fukk in the car at lunch or something. What girl is he more likely to wife? The only at work or one he met at the club? If we're in a relationship, the girl at work is a bigger threat.
 

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there are enough forum sites out there...that's like him going to a club with his boys and me showing up at the same club, when there are many others to choose from.
If he shows up, I'm not going to have an issue with it.

altho these 2 contradict each other, I'll ignore that and say, well then, have him log on then. :blessed:

*hears feet back pedaling like a sunday cornerback*
 

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altho these 2 contradict each other, I'll ignore that and say, well then, have him log on then. :blessed:

*hears feet back pedaling like a sunday cornerback*

I'm not trying to contradict myself, I'm just saying that I don't need to be breathing down his back and always at his hip. It's okay if he wants to just chill with his boys without me.
 

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And fukk these hoes at the club. If I'm going to worry about someone, it's the bytch at the work. In an environment where he may be the only good prospect, where she can make him food for the potluck, have personal convos with or go fukk in the car at lunch or something. What girl is he more likely to wife? The only at work or one he met at the club? If we're in a relationship, the girl at work is a bigger threat.
I already knew you was talkin that good good cause you already above the club age, so as we can see, this is where your insecurity lies.

makes sense for older women.

anyways im not callin yall out, but lets not try to fukking play games on here and act like women arent territorial. :rudy:
 

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Quality men do exist, just not sure if they would wife q single mom with a tit shot floating around the web :patrice:

Because quality men don't exist. Just like you don't believe quality women exist.
 

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I'm not trying to contradict myself, I'm just saying that I don't need to be breathing down his back and always at his hip. It's okay if he wants to just chill with his boys without me.
its also ok for him to post with us coli gents, you should tell him you go on a predominately black website with 90% males. no harm no foul. yall are both sprinkles and rainbows so its all good.
 

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you're associating open honesty and doing things with full disclosure as miserable and distrust.
:what:
Not trusting someone makes a relationship miserable. Just because I've learned not to worry about the next chick doesn't mean I'm lying. I've just matured.
 

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Easier for a woman finding a quality man than a man finding a quality woman.

There are quality people out there. They're not EASY to find...they do exist....does that mean we will feel romantically attracted to them? Maybe not. The world isn't so black and white and you can't always control your emotions...even if someone's a great person, that doesn't guarantee you'll both be romantically interested in one another...and marriage isn't about finding someone who you love like a brother/sister...so that sexual chemistry has to be there in addition to their great qualities.
 
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There are quality people out there. They're not EASY to find...they do exist....does that mean we will feel romantically attracted to them? Maybe not. The world isn't so black and white and you can't always control your emotions...even if someone's a great person, that doesn't guarantee you'll both be romantically interested in one another...and marriage isn't about finding someone who you love like a brother/sister...so that sexual chemistry has to be there in addition to their great qualities.

There's no point wasting your time. He'll forever be jaded and that clouds his judgment.
 

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Or.is it that women go off emotion and follow hypergamy.



There are quality people out there. They're not EASY to find...they do exist....does that mean we will feel romantically attracted to them? Maybe not. The world isn't so black and white and you can't always control your emotions...even if someone's a great person, that doesn't guarantee you'll both be romantically interested in one another...and marriage isn't about finding someone who you love like a brother/sister...so that sexual chemistry has to be there in addition to their great qualities.
 
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