How do you feel about significant others keeping items from previous relationships?

[Neuromancer]

He's got a little girls bra and panties?

This should bother her.

 

[Mr swag]

sentimental items like clothing, jewelry, etc....are you cool with it or nah?

Clothes and jewelry? Why would she throw that stuff in the trash

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

i dont give a fukk
cause she can go back to the nikka anyday if she want


i keep panties left behind so

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Sentimental reasons? Homie better be dead if that's the case


If it's something like a PS4 or some shyt I could use, keep it. If it's some shyt like a Teddy Bear a dude got you, it's either the bear or me

 

[Neuromancer]

Sentimental reasons? Homie better be dead if that's the case


If it's something like a PS4 or some shyt I could use, keep it. If it's some shyt like a Teddy Bear a dude got you, it's either the bear or me

Yoooooo!

 

[intruder]

sentimental items like clothing, jewelry, etc....are you cool with it or nah?

I give zero fukks
My main chick has paintings from her ex husband (he's an artist) in her living room and in her kids' rooms. I noticed it and know where/who it's from because im familiar with his work but it has never bothered me at all and we've never discussed it.
I've kept my ex's panties, gifts (watches ad others) in the past so i cant be a hypocrite about this

 

[cam>]

He's got a little girls bra and panties?

lol

they were adult size, they just looked like this

 

[Diondon]

Women have too much shyt for me to ask who gave her each article of clothing, breh

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Certain things you should expect (gifts, certain types of clothing etc) I done had a few hoddies my exes have...

and I had a chambray shirt that was really dope, but my girl dressed it up and it looks good on her. If we break up i don't really care if that one doesn't come back.

 

[mcdivit85]

I don't mind because I don't even think to ask what someone bought for her. Besides, I expect people to have some trinkets from past relationships.

But I couldn't talk anyway since a good portion of my possessions are from my exes

Peace

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I don't care. I think it's childish to pretend like life started with you.

I bought myself this bracelet before I met my ex and he swore some dude had bought it for me and never wanted me to wear it. I have no idea why I dated him. He was so insecure.

 

[Made Myself A Boss]

It's THEIRS

Has nothing to do with you and them..

You forcing a partner to get rid of things that they acquired before you and he/she ever met is a bit on the psycho side..

EDIT:
The only way that I somewhat may agree with OP is if you and your partner met-broke up-then got back together..

I wouldn't want you to keep anything that you were given during the time we were broken up because I'd like to still believe that the break up was a mistake and something that we should try and erase completely from "our" history.. But if it stuff that happened before we met, I'd just let it ride

-MGM

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

It's THEIRS

Has nothing to do with you and them..

You forcing a partner to get rid of things that they acquired before you and he/she ever met is a bit on the psycho side..

EDIT:
The only way that I somewhat may agree with OP is if you and your partner met-broke up-then got back together..

I wouldn't want you to keep anything that you were given during the time we were broken up because I'd like to still believe that the break up was a mistake and something that we should try and erase completely from "our" history.. But if it stuff that happened before we met, I'd just let it ride

-MGM

If it's not useful to them now I don't understand keeping items. To me that's just kinda disrespectful. It not like it's a family member or some one important. It just shows you have no respect to the current partner. Its no point in keep sentimental items that serve no purpose other than you recanting memories of failed relationship. You should be making memories with the one your with.

 

[thatdude954]

Love letter from HS or a teddy bear from her first bf is w/e.
Wedding ring from her last marriage under her pillow es no bueno.

 

[Tommy_Gunn]

How would you know it's from previous relationships? Just assume they bought it.