Yeah, this is part of the reason I've cut a lot of people out of my life, they don't remember the things you've done for them, only the things you weren't able to. I always went out of my way to help friends, I wouldn't give you the shirt off my back, I'd give you my wardrobe if you needed it. People take advantage of that, and then get angry when you cut them off completely for abusing your willingness to help.
Was going to rep this but I'm out for the day.
i experienced this as well in my story bro, it's a humbling experience but one which is needed in understanding human nature. I don't know if you noticed all this made you a deeper thinking too ? For me it did, I was able to objectively see those who I was giving more than they were giving me. I could objectively see who was a selfish b*stard, who was't, what extent selfishness was healthy and in which individuals it had gone too far.
Cutting those people off is very empowering though, that moment you realize someone really wasn't shyt. I had a friend who I let live me when he was homeless, lent him money etc and he had the sheer audacity to get pissed when I did some random (small) shyt to him, I had to analyse his revelance and know when to cut him.
Powerful stuff