How do you cut off a good chick

BruhMayne

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You need to tell her then. I'm not trying to be funny but I was in a similar situation. I was dating a chick and she was celibate. She asked me would that be a problem. I told her 'yep". We ended up getting married last year.

nikka you skipping crucial events

You wasnt down for the celibate life but yall got married

What happened in between??
 

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I have to cut her off cause she's a virgin and standing strong

In a perfect world I would wait but the reality is most the time I'm :devil: :evil: and she's :no:

I'd rather cut her than be in a relationship and cheat :manny:

Tell her that you won't be in a relationship with someone you can't sleep with.

She can't get mad at that.
 

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right, you're making shyt harder than it needs to be. tell the truth, you don't think you can be faithful in a sexless relationship yet you don't want her to do anything she's not ready to. it's bad timing for yall...
 

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You need to tell her then. I'm not trying to be funny but I was in a similar situation. I was dating a chick and she was celibate. She asked me would that be a problem. I told her 'yep". We ended up getting married last year.

:what:

How the fukk do you think that relates?
 

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You are giving yourself too much credit. Just dead it normally and it won't be a big deal. She can't be so green that a normal break-up would crush her that badly.

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I aint giving myself too credit though, it doesnt have to crush her to change her point of view on dudes.

When I stopped being green I wasnt crushed nor heartbroken, it was more like just a light illuminating the nature of most young females
 

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I aint giving myself too credit though, it doesnt have to crush her to change her point of view on dudes.

When I stopped being green I wasnt crushed nor heartbroken, it was more like just a light illuminating the nature of most young females

But its going to happen regardless more than likely so what's the big deal? Make a clean break and let someone else get on her. Y'all can't be that deep anyway.
 

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I aint giving myself too credit though, it doesnt have to crush her to change her point of view on dudes.

When I stopped being green I wasnt crushed nor heartbroken, it was more like just a light illuminating the nature of most young females

how old is she? women know men want/like to fukk. any chick 18+ who's still a virgin knows that could be an issue for some men. she's not going to get on some fukk nikkas tip by you being honest and telling her you can't be be in a relationship without sex, she'll respect you for being truthful
 

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the longer you wait to tell her (the more she gets attached), the higher the likelihood that girl will go from this

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to this

http://necolebytchie.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/tami-roman-bully.jpg

don't mess that girl up for the next nikka.
 

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Tell her that you won't be in a relationship with someone you can't sleep with.

She can't get mad at that.

Yea I guess ima go with this...but you a lil too raw with it so Ima say like the bolded below

right, you're making shyt harder than it needs to be. tell the truth, you don't think you can be faithful in a sexless relationship yet you don't want her to do anything she's not ready to. it's bad timing for yall...

Preciate ya I'll probably say this verbatim
 

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:what:

How the fukk do you think that relates?
Because she hadn't had sex in 18 months at the time we had started dating. She wasn't no virgin but she wasn't sleeping with anyone. That's how the fukk it relates. Like Wallie said, he can just tell her that he can't be in a relationship with someone he can't sleep with. It's up to her to decide if it's worth it or not.
 

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:wtf: why would you want to cut off a good chick?

Damn, dudes are never happy. :smh:

It's very difficult to find a good woman. However, if you're not feeling it, or you don't click then no point continuing it. It is difficult to cut off a good girl though..especially if you're good with her fam and friends.

Just make sure you're not cutting her off over some trivial sh1t.

Edit: She's a virgin? Nikka, you should be able to break down that wall and fukk.
 

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the longer you wait to tell her (the more she gets attached), the higher the likelihood that girl will go from this

2739_60830713494_589113494_1646966_3131081_n.jpg


to this

http://necolebytchie.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/tami-roman-bully.jpg

don't mess that girl up for the next nikka.
:huhldup:

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Don't do it breh :(

Giving up a good chick is like Dan Marino making te Super Bowl in his second year you think your gonna be back (getting a good chick again) but you won't breh

Every nikka just gets one
 

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nikka you skipping crucial events

You wasnt down for the celibate life but yall got married

What happened in between??
I'm sorry about that. When we had the discussion about sex and she said well she was celibate and had been for the past 18 months. She asked me was that going to be a problem for me in our relationship and I told her it would be problem. I didn't say I was gonna dump her but I came at her real and said that it would be a problem for me to be in a sexless relationship. It was still another couple of months before we did have sex but it happened. I asked her why she decided to give in and she said she felt like I was worth it. And our relationship went on from there.
 

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But its going to happen regardless more than likely so what's the big deal? Make a clean break and let someone else get on her. Y'all can't be that deep anyway.

You're right, she's never said she loves me before :manny:


the longer you wait to tell her (the more she gets attached), the higher the likelihood that girl will go from this

2739_60830713494_589113494_1646966_3131081_n.jpg


to this

http://necolebytchie.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/tami-roman-bully.jpg

don't mess that girl up for the next nikka.

Yep thats what Im tryna prevent. Everytime I see how innocent her essence is im like :krs: so Im just tryna preserve it

But ima use the advice in this thread and tactfully tell the truth

She's a virgin? Nikka, you should be able to break down that wall and fukk.

No lie, she aint gone die a virgin so I obviously aint the one if she dont wanna give to me.


Don't do it breh :(

Giving up a good chick is like Dan Marino making te Super Bowl in his second year you think your gonna be back (getting a good chick again) but you won't breh

Every nikka just gets one

You're right. But she doesnt wanna lose the virginity to me and I got ugly needs :snoop:
 
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