The Blackout
F-ck Da Mods
Okay, I know theboli is usually filled with troll try hard threads day in and day out but I wanted to start a thread that would actually help a lot of us brehs out on here bc from to time I be feelings yalls pain and sometimes we gotta look out for each other and spread some love and wisdom..
Now, myself, am going through some hard times but Im a stubborn fukk, I'm keep persevering no matter what (this is coming from a breh who lost him moms at 2, never knew my father, lost my grandmother and love of my life in the same week and then lost my little brother a year after).
A couple of rap lines that always motivated when i dwelled on the bad was Hov's "Everytime I hit the Ground I bounce back like groundball" or TI's "it's a minor setback for a major comeback"
Yo but sometimes it gets really hard.. like, Losing a girl who you thought you can have a future with, quitting/fired from a job and nowhere to turn for money, drowning in debt with no lifeguard in sight, seeing everyone around you make something of themselves and still dont know what you want to be is tuff,..
All that said to say this.
After you realize your predicament what do you do to change course and get back on track and take over your life.. ME, I tend to isolate myself, read alot, run and exercise daily, eat better and make small goals that I can achieve on daily, weekly basis. And most importantly I had to keep reminding myself that everyone is on their own journey and I have to find my path.
I'd love to hear how some of you brehs persevered through some of your hardest times; I'm sure it would help some of us out: and if it's any of you brehs left from that amzaing thread on "Gems of How to Deal W Women" then I know its some true wisdom layind around here..
Lets build
Now, myself, am going through some hard times but Im a stubborn fukk, I'm keep persevering no matter what (this is coming from a breh who lost him moms at 2, never knew my father, lost my grandmother and love of my life in the same week and then lost my little brother a year after).
A couple of rap lines that always motivated when i dwelled on the bad was Hov's "Everytime I hit the Ground I bounce back like groundball" or TI's "it's a minor setback for a major comeback"
Yo but sometimes it gets really hard.. like, Losing a girl who you thought you can have a future with, quitting/fired from a job and nowhere to turn for money, drowning in debt with no lifeguard in sight, seeing everyone around you make something of themselves and still dont know what you want to be is tuff,..
All that said to say this.
After you realize your predicament what do you do to change course and get back on track and take over your life.. ME, I tend to isolate myself, read alot, run and exercise daily, eat better and make small goals that I can achieve on daily, weekly basis. And most importantly I had to keep reminding myself that everyone is on their own journey and I have to find my path.
I'd love to hear how some of you brehs persevered through some of your hardest times; I'm sure it would help some of us out: and if it's any of you brehs left from that amzaing thread on "Gems of How to Deal W Women" then I know its some true wisdom layind around here..
Lets build