How do y’all get at a girl when you really JUST wanna smash?

yung Herbie Hancock

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Imma leave it open like that
If she's attracted to you she's gonna wanna smash too

I would say that a good majority of brehs in relationships are the "good guys" that are fulfilling the relationship role while shes getting dikkked down in the background by the dude she really wants :francis:. Same thing with marriages. She will marry the safe option/ man with resources but fukkkk the dude she is attracted to on the side :yeshrug:. Dual mating strategy breh :mjgrin:.
Don't be the relationship guy. tell her upfront that you wanna fukk :umad:. If she's feeling you then you good :ahh:.
 

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Well, in my experience through trial and error....simply be up front about it.

Online I just put it out there and the responses were usually "oh :whoa:....to....uh..well...:patrice:...to. well why didn't you just say that...:shaq:"

depends on the woman

Don't try to do the "gentleman" good guy routine by dating her and just wanting to smash. It never really ends well. And keep in mind some women need a "relationship" to justify having sex with someone, so it can get tricky.
 
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I just tell em the truth. Not trying to get into a relationship just stop by after dark a time or two a week:yeshrug:

Most will go for it thinking they can change your mind. Anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months in she's gonna want more.
That's when you decide whether you've had your fun and get out or get into a relationship you're not invested in.
 

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it depends. a question is a little vague. are we talking online dating, or a girl you've been speaking to for a minute, or a girl at work, a friend of a friend...
 
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