How do one feels finding out the chick he is liking was (or still is) promiscuous?

[Texas2step]

I am not talking about cheating. 100 other dudes under any pretense have traveled the same land before me. That's what I mean.

Well then it just comes down to being secure with yourself. Most dudes hate that because they want to be the best and they feel as though they can't measure up to some of dudes that she has had. You just have to say fukk that and not worried what another nikka had done and just concentrate on what you can do.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Well then it just comes down to being secure with yourself. Most dudes hate that because they want to be the best and they feel as though they can't measure up to some of dudes that she has had. You just have to say fukk that and not worried what another nikka had done and just concentrate on what you can do.

That's a way to look at it.

 

[AntiHero]

I never understood why guys were so intrigued with their girlfriend's sexual past. Girls like sex just as much as guys and they're getting fuked by different guys all the time, there's nothing we can do about it. You guys are delusional if you think your girlfriend wasn't getting fukked like a pornstar by a bunch of horny guys before you.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I never understood why guys were so intrigued with their girlfriend's sexual past. Girls like sex just as much as guys and they're getting fuked by different guys all the time, there's nothing we can do about it. You guys are delusional if you think your girlfriend wasn't getting fukked like a pornstar by a bunch of horny guys before you.

That's the point but I am interested in one would react when they know it. What you are saying it speculative.

 

[AntiHero]

I may be in the minority but i kinda get turned on when i hear about a girl's past. Listening to her tell me about how she got fukked by her friend while she was drunk or by some random guy makes me curious. I put myself in the guy's shoes and create my own scenario where as most guys think about the guy treating his queen like a slut and getting angry over it. That's just me though .

 

[Texas2step]

What is your protocol on dealing with such a discovery?

What number is too many?

Do the length of the last time of the alleged promiscuous behavior affects one's reaction?

Is having a train ran on her more critical than just having multiple, separate partners?

My protocol is asking her and watching for tells in her response. If you talk to people, you understand deviations in their tone, confidence and posture. You should know if someone is lying to you or not. If you cannot tell then question everything that person has told you.

The number on what is too many partners is contingent on the age of the women (excluding whores).
Example: A 16-year-old girl having sex with 20 dudes is much different than a 30-year-old woman doing the same. However, there are instances where most of a person's sexual partners could have been accumulated in a short span. The next question touches another part of this scenario.

The length of the time removed from a woman being promiscuous is a deal breaker. 10 years age versus last month tells the tale.

I would say the train is far more critical having been a part of more than a few, it leaves a lasting impression.

Share your thoughts and answer the questions as well. Ladies chime in too.

1.My protocol would be to even more intrigued
2. No number is too many as long as it was safe and not stretched into a cave
3. No
4. Having a train ran on her just means that she is a freak so it isnt more or less critical than multiple partners

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

1.My protocol would be to even more intrigued
2. No number is too many as long as it was safe and not stretched into a cave
3. No
4. Having a train ran on her just means that she is a freak so it isnt more or less critical than multiple partners

You are different and that is great. Very liberal.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

But you heard or did she confide in you that she was promiscuous?

She downplays it and I don't dig. I know for certain she banged a handful (like 4-5) of cats from our little club over a three year period. If I am smart I at least double that (triple ? ). Just knowing her and her homegirl crew let's me know the time. I have no evidence or even rumors to say anything beyond that.

 

[Will2x]

I had an ex who I found out over time was promiscuous. It really made me question her judgment and feel that we were together through circumstance and nothing more.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

I promise if you get a mail order bride then she will never have a promiscuous past

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

yes i was promiscious when i was separated from my first husband and then after the divorce. i aint worried bout my husband we share everything we are very open , thats how our relationship is 9 yrs + strong.

what made you promiscious? how promiscious where you? did being promiscious accomplish anything?

 

[sanityovar8ted]

what made you promiscious? how promiscious where you? did being promiscious accomplish anything?

what made me promiscious is the fact i jumped out one relationship into another. i wasnt that promiscious, i was more of a side chick, N it didnt accomplish shyt, just got me lots of sex which i enjoyed.