Women are a numbers game. talk to alot of women, some as just friends. some as slightly more than just friends.
This will increase your game, your ability to talk to women. You get alot more exposure to them. Don't try to get laid, yet just try to get in. You will see what they like and dislike about men. You will understand their strange, feminine language.
The more women you talk to the more your value as a man will go up. You will have the flair, confidence, or w/e that says "I'm a lady's man. I'm a guy that girls want." They will smell and sense that you are around and are comfortable with women. And women will want you.
You want solid ground with your female friends. When you start getting comfortable, start talking about hooking up with their friends. Then she will start thinking about you with other women. Even if you slam her friend, she will probably even want you more.
The trick is to play women against other women. You will have a garden of flowers fighting to be your favourite. And you, the bee, will land and pollinate the ones you choose.