How do I convince my girl to start using rubbers again?

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I don't do it, but you might have to just eat the box and get her off. :scusthov:
Stop fukking her if you just going to leave, that might end bad for you. You don't have family that you could move in with?
put your stuff in storage if you got to and find a place to stay short term. Rent a motel or hotel room. Airbnb?

This one might sound crazy but tell her your training for something like boxers do and that you have to abstain from sex for a while. :umad:
 

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There is no good advice to be given. Coz you can't afford to move out yet.

A physically abusive alcoholic... then force yourself to have sex, unprotected sex on top of it all... - I'm a woman so this sounds like a living hell to me.

Just save up and move as soon as you can.

And how long have you been together? How come you didnt get her pregnant all along? Why do you feel there is a risk of pregnancy now?
 
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There is no good advice to be given. Coz you can't afford to move out yet.

A physically abusive alcoholic... then force yourself to have sex, unprotected sex on top of it all... - I'm a woman so this sounds like a living hell to me.

Just save up and move as soon as you can.

And how long have you been together? How come you didnt get her pregnant all along? Why do you feel there is a risk of pregnancy now?

It's been almost 4 years. I don't feel a higher risk, I just don't want things to get stupid now that I've officially decided I'm done and have a exit plan.

Thinga have been ok lately, but i feel it's just a matter of time before it goes south and i don't wanna do another lap of this shyt.
 

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It's been almost 4 years. I don't feel a higher risk, I just don't want things to get stupid now that I've officially decided I'm done and have a exit plan.

Thinga have been ok lately, but i feel it's just a matter of time before it goes south and i don't wanna do another lap of this shyt.

Goodluck.

Why cant you use the Kevin Hart tickets? She wont let you or are you worried she will want to tag along?

There should be male birth control by now .
 

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I was in a similar situation, had a pregnancy scare with my last gf. She had an early miscarriage.

We were on the rocks but we kept fukking. I started realizing I was gonna dead it and the last thing I wanted was a kid with someone I didn't want to be with. I started by pulling out (without letting her know I was going to) she was pissed. I explained to her that I didn't want to risk having a kid while her body was still recovering from the miscarriage.

After that I convinced her that we should use condoms. The whole time she was :jbhmm: tho.

I was able to end it without kids. :blessed:
 
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Goodluck.

Why cant you use the Kevin Hart tickets? She wont let you or are you worried she will want to tag along?

There should be male birth control by now .
I just don't wanna go with her :yeshrug:

She's not even a fan, she just wants to go because I am.

I was in a similar situation, had a pregnancy scare with my last gf. She had an early miscarriage.

We were on the rocks but we kept fukking. I started realizing I was gonna dead it and the last thing I wanted was a kid with someone I didn't want to be with. I started by pulling out (without letting her know I was going to) she was pissed. I explained to her that I didn't want to risk having a kid while her body was still recovering from the miscarriage.

After that I convinced her that we should use condoms. The whole time she was :jbhmm: tho.

I was able to end it without kids. :blessed:
Yeah, I'm gonna just keep pullin out and avoiding sex. I mean it's already down to like twice a month. Maybe I'm over thinking. Just gonna stick to the script.

The worst part is the other ladies that have expressed interest. I'm not the cheating type so hopefully they'll hold out lol. If not, eh, that's life.
 

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I just don't wanna go with her :yeshrug:

She's not even a fan, she just wants to go because I am.


Yeah, I'm gonna just keep pullin out and avoiding sex. I mean it's already down to like twice a month. Maybe I'm over thinking. Just gonna stick to the script.

The worst part is the other ladies that have expressed interest. I'm not the cheating type so hopefully they'll hold out lol. If not, eh, that's life.


You're not overthinking it. USE A CONDOM, BREH. That pull out method is a dangerous game. It sounds like you're already in a shaky spot financially, do you even want to risk the chance of having a kid on top of everything. Be real with shorty and tell her you don't want to risk pregnancy at this time until you get yourself together. Do this for yourself and if not for yourself, then for the potential unborn child you may be forced to bring into this world with unsable parents that hate each other.
 
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You're not overthinking it. USE A CONDOM, BREH. That pull out method is a dangerous game. It sounds like you're already in a shaky spot financially, do you even want to risk the chance of having a kid on top of everything. Be real with shorty and tell her you don't want to risk pregnancy at this time until you get yourself together. Do this for yourself and if not for yourself, then for the potential unborn child you may be forced to bring into this world with unsable parents that hate each other.
Yeah, and she about to start med school so I don't think she really wants kids yet anyway. Now that i've got it off my chest, I think I can pull of condoms, pun intended.

get a vasectomy.

it's a surgical summer anyway.

snip. snip. snip.


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:yeshrug: I've really thought about it. I mean, I'm 30. I'm at the age where I can logically and safely make that decision. I might do real porn too instead of just selling clips. I been on my super grown man shyt lately as far as mentally, and now I'm starting to have a more positive mental image of myself.
 
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