How do get over being bitter about the past or people that have done you wrong?
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RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Realize you can only control what you control, so if you did everything right on your part.. it is what it is
forgive for your own well being , but never forget — use it as a cautionary tale
forgive for your own well being , but never forget — use it as a cautionary tale
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
It’s very relatable. We all been through this when deal with someone who fukked us over in the past.
Be better not bitter
Holding grudges of hatred, pain and misery is not healthy for the soul
Heal yourself. Heal from your trauma. Cleanse
Start reading people to identify red flags in the beginning. Don’t expose yourself. Have boundaries.
People can’t hurt you unless you give em permission
Be better not bitter
Holding grudges of hatred, pain and misery is not healthy for the soul
Heal yourself. Heal from your trauma. Cleanse
Start reading people to identify red flags in the beginning. Don’t expose yourself. Have boundaries.
People can’t hurt you unless you give em permission
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
Realize how silly it is to keep wasting time on whatever you're bitter about and then spend less and less time on it. Accept the fact that you might never be completely over it but don't dedicate time to it. When it crosses your mind let it go as quickly as possible. It will get easier
RadaMillz
Superstar
out of sight, out of mind.
part of the healing process is getting away from them while you work hard on improving ur life.
once you make it and you are in a happy place, it would not even matter
part of the healing process is getting away from them while you work hard on improving ur life.
once you make it and you are in a happy place, it would not even matter
Overkill every trait that they failed at. In my case:
- Being a good husband
- Being a good father
- Being real with folks
- Focusing on my dreams and happiness
- Watching my health
- Being a writer
- Continue to follow God's plan
- Having a loving soul
jilla82
Superstar
ive noticed some people live in the past.
its like a glitch in their brain...
...they cant get over things.
Ive never been able to relate to that...
...I move on pretty fast and have a short memory.
The past is a story in your brain...it doesnt exist.
its like a glitch in their brain...
...they cant get over things.
Ive never been able to relate to that...
...I move on pretty fast and have a short memory.
The past is a story in your brain...it doesnt exist.
J.E.T.S
Lookahere mayne...
Simple.
Commit that.
Commit that.
Peruvian Connect
All Star
this is bogus. thats what triggers alot of people. Pretending something don't exist ain't healing
Cloutius Maximus
with the aid of the Funk...
Live good because you don't want to be bitter and living fukked up while the people who hurt you are living good
Ignore until you get the opportunity to properly deal with them
Anyone thats held a grudge on me and told me clearly telegraphed that it would happen as they mentioned people before me that they were still bitter about. You usually know what you're getting into. So i actively choose not to engage that part of my brain when I see them again or interact with any mutual associates in public. I choose the golden rule in all aspects of my relationships with others.
If I was trying to rekindle with a girl that did me dirty in the past for instance, would I want her throwing that in my face while I'm talking and throwing shots at me on social media? Hell no. So I choose not to do it on my end. That way whatever happens I know I kept it solid on my part.
If I was trying to rekindle with a girl that did me dirty in the past for instance, would I want her throwing that in my face while I'm talking and throwing shots at me on social media? Hell no. So I choose not to do it on my end. That way whatever happens I know I kept it solid on my part.
