How did you KNOW you were in love with the one you are in love with?

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

well she hella curious cuz of my health so that made her wanna do it is one of the reasons i know
u should
be like nurse pk ur needed too the desk (won't say ur real name lol)

ya she would we be making over 100k combined

when u buying house while he in service or out of service?

We were actually just talking about that! He wants to wait because we don't plan on retiring in the US.

 

[twan83]

We were actually just talking about that! He wants to wait because we don't plan on retiring in the US.

i agree on the wait part do ur 20 yrs get that retirement check plus the new job check
my dad did that his retirement check pays the mortgage and his new job check is the bonus

I've known quite a few who stayed overseas and retired cuz of the pay and job stability working as a contractor or gs employee on base cuz they need people and most too damn scared too live overseas

best part is take that hop too states to visit without really paying at least G too fly back too

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

i agree on the wait part do ur 20 yrs get that retirement check plus the new job check
my dad did that his retirement check pays the mortgage and his new job check is the bonus

I've known quite a few who stayed overseas and retired cuz of the pay and job stability working as a contractor or gs employee on base cuz they need people and most too damn scared too live overseas

best part is take that hop too states to visit without really paying at least G too fly back too

I knooww! My mom and dad are eating good off their retirement checks and 100% VA.

Paying only a G? It's like a G per person and you know I've got the mob squad over here I'll PM you. I dont want the OP to get aggy over us derailing his thread lol

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

when i wanted to buy the ring on my own without her dropping hints or influencing me like other girls

 

[swimmingpools]

I never felt the need to try to change him to fit my expectations. Whereas in previous ones, it was stressful because I kept trying to change people to fit my ideal s/o. All that ever leads to is being let down, so its great to find someone who you accept as they are.

 

[Uptown WaYo87]

This time its different brehs . Everything clicks. Addicted to her scent. She's...important...Flawless social timing. No fear of leaving or jealousy. I want her to meet my family. We fiend when we're apart. We can talk without speaking...And its still early



Could it be?

Like someone else in this thread said, wait time to pass before you say i love you (i think about a year/year n half). As an example ima talk about me and my girl of 7 years. For the first year and change, we NEVER argued..i thought this shyt was a blessing i was always like "damn nothing can go wrong "... all that shyt changed, we argued about fukking everything and then would fukk and make up. rinse and repeat. rinse and repeat. Theres a point in time where you two start picking up on each others bad habits and start noticing shyt you cant stand, you gotta let that phase pass before you say i love you to be honest..

now i got a 2 month old daughter with this chick...dont got me wrong i love her and i care for her, but its not the same feeling of when i first got with her. Theres not a ounce of me that regrets my daughter and that thought will never cross my mind...but before i found out shorty was pregnant, i regretted that relationship every fukking day. even when werent together, we was on and off A LOT...but i felt like she changed me a lot as a person and not in a way that i liked. I loved her and i always hoped things will get back like they use 2 but that day never came, im always like in my thoughts because i put up with her for so long but there was always something that had us link up again. Right now im putting up with a lot of shyt but only because i think its important for my daughter to grow up with her parents, and i damn sure dont want no other nikka around her playing step daddy

Wait it out breh, let time pass before you say it and think shes the one. Because if it doesnt work out as well as you think, you going to live life with a lot of regrets

 

[Ricky Church]

you just know breh, you just know.

 

[Demon]

I realized i never got tired of her being around. Other womwn after so long, i would lie to get out of kicking it with them. To this day i dont mind my wife rolling with me wherever for whatever im doing. Thays my true partner in crime

 

[DuncanWebayama]

http://popchassid.com/didnt-love-wife/

read this breh