How can a person really want to stay single forever?!

[Jahmal]

I don't know who'd want to be single forever.
I love having my space, but damn if it doesn't get lonely sometimes.

Being single doesnt mean you are lonely. If you have an ounce of game you will have a plethora of women to call up and chill with you...

 

[Remote]

Being single doesnt mean you are lonely. If you have an ounce of game you will have a plethora of women to call up and chill with you...

You're right about the single/lonely part.
As for the plethora of women....yeah you got a point there too. But I'm not trying to run through women like that. I'm in my early 30s. I'm trying to meet someone.

To each his own, tho

 

[Jahmal]

This is some worry wart way of thinking.

Y'all stay living with the glass half empty.

I dont worry at all because I'm going to stay single, enjoy life and travel to places you will never go. You nikkaz that get married gotta worry about spending money on a expensive weddings, engagement rings, wedding rings, house, kids, tuition, etc...

I'm good on all that playboy.

 

[Malta]

My uncle did it, and he's pretty damn happy even though he's never been married or had kids.


He always had girlfriends, the longest I remember him being with one was like 4 years.

 

[Jahmal]

You're right about the single/lonely part.
As for the plethora of women....yeah you got a point there too. But I'm not trying to run through women like that. I'm in my early 30s. I'm trying to meet someone.

To each his own, tho

You want to spend the rest of your life with a Westernized Woman?

 

[Remote]

You want to spend the rest of your life with a Westernized Woman?

Hahahahaha!!!

 

[tremonthustler1]

I dont worry at all because I'm going to stay single, enjoy life and travel to places you will never go. You nikkaz that get married gotta worry about spending money on a expensive weddings, engagement rings, wedding rings, house, kids, tuition, etc...

I'm good on all that playboy.

I don't have to worry about shyt. I don't live life that fearful of shyt.

If I wanna buy a dog I'm not gonna think "OMG what if the dog wakes up one day and forgets I'm his master and bites my hand when I try to feed it and then I get rabies and I need shots and the dog has to be put to sleep and "

If I wanna drink tap water I'm not gonna think "OMG what if the water is contaminated with a weird disease and I get it and it affects my intestines and "

If I wanna buy a car I'm not gonna think "OMG what if this car breaks down on my way to an interview and I don't get the job and then I can't afford to put gas in it and then I leave it in the garage where it gets old and dusty and "

If I want a new HDTV with all the works, I'm not gonna think "OMG what if I get the TV and the backlight goes out in 2 weeks and since I had no warranty they won't fix it for under $300 and then I might as well buy a new TV and what if it happens to that one too "

If you prefer not to get married, cool, to each his own, one less motherfukker I gotta worry about, BUT, grown men who use the "OMG what if she wakes up one day and doesn't want me and takes everything from me and doesn't let me see my kids and then I can only afford the internet so I can bytch on the coli about women like a lonely Canadian who I identify with deeply " sound like battered wives. There's a term for nikkas like y'all. It's called EMO.

 

[I'm Billy FUCO!!]

I don't have to worry about shyt. I don't live life that fearful of shyt.

If I wanna buy a dog I'm not gonna think "OMG what if the dog wakes up one day and forgets I'm his master and bites my hand when I try to feed it and then I get rabies and I need shots and the dog has to be put to sleep and "

If I wanna drink tap water I'm not gonna think "OMG what if the water is contaminated with a weird disease and I get it and it affects my intestines and "

If I wanna buy a car I'm not gonna think "OMG what if this car breaks down on my way to an interview and I don't get the job and then I can't afford to put gas in it and then I leave it in the garage where it gets old and dusty and "

If I want a new HDTV with all the works, I'm not gonna think "OMG what if I get the TV and the backlight goes out in 2 weeks and since I had no warranty they won't fix it for under $300 and then I might as well buy a new TV and what if it happens to that one too "

If you prefer not to get married, cool, to each his own, one less motherfukker I gotta worry about, BUT, grown men who use the "OMG what if she wakes up one day and doesn't want me and takes everything from me and doesn't let me see my kids and then I can only afford the internet so I can bytch on the coli about women like a lonely Canadian who I identify with deeply " sound like battered wives. There's a term for nikkas like y'all. It's called EMO.

....wow.

HORRIBLE comparisons.

Go to sleep, nikka.

 

[YouMadd?]

Easy... Have women that you fukk... And have women that you're friends with.... Both ends of the spectrum are met...

 

[Ricky Church]

they ain't got no feelings breh.

 

[tremonthustler1]

....wow.

HORRIBLE comparisons.

Go to sleep, nikka.

How? If you're trying to avoid some sort of emotional commitment because you're shook of the worst case scenario, you're living in fear. Straight up. If you're predisposed to believing that divorce or a breakup WILL happen (not that it can, obviously it can, but that's it's foregone conclusion that it will happen), then you're scared. Just say you're scared. nikkas on this site will be way too hardbody to wanna just admit that rejection of that magnitude SCARES the shyt outta them. There are too many examples that actually surround you of people who are married and live really nice lives instead of isolated celebrity incidents that make people here inexplicably feel like they're destined to have the same outcome.

 

[Jahmal]

How? If you're trying to avoid some sort of emotional commitment because you're shook of the worst case scenario, you're living in fear. Straight up. If you're predisposed to believing that divorce or a breakup WILL happen (not that it can, obviously it can, but that's it's foregone conclusion that it will happen), then you're scared. Just say you're scared. nikkas on this site will be way too hardbody to wanna just admit that rejection of that magnitude SCARES the shyt outta them. There are too many examples that actually surround you of people who are married and live really nice lives instead of isolated celebrity incidents that make people here inexplicably feel like they're destined to have the same outcome.

You can enjoy a woman's company and have emotions for her without signing a lifetime contract with her...

When the relationship is over then you each go your separate ways...No Government, Lawyers or Religion should be involved.

 

[tremonthustler1]

You can enjoy a woman's company and have emotions for her without signing a lifetime contract with her...

contract or not in your world she can still walk away from you, decide she doesn't love you and still make your life a living hell, and God forbid you had kids. That may happen, but then it may not. You may wind up like your parents or your grandparents or your siblings if they're living a happy ass life with their significant other.

Regardless that's a scary ass way to go about life. Obviously my examples were extreme as fukk, but the point is that sometimes you just gotta stop thinking about it and just let shyt play out.

 

[Remote]

I dont worry at all because I'm going to stay single, enjoy life and travel to places you will never go. You nikkaz that get married gotta worry about spending money on a expensive weddings, engagement rings, wedding rings, house, kids, tuition, etc...

I'm good on all that playboy.

Respectfully, not everyone that wants to find someone and get married is also going to want to spend a ton of money on a wedding.
I wouldn't.
I understand your point though.
But I think on this site, people tend to focus on a lot of the things that can go wrong in a relationship/marriage...and forget about all the beautiful things that can go right.

 

[Jahmal]

contract or not in your world she can still walk away from you, decide she doesn't love you and still make your life a living hell, and God forbid you had kids. That may happen, but then it may not. You may wind up like your parents or your grandparents or your siblings if they're living a happy ass life with their significant other.

Regardless that's a scary ass way to go about life. Obviously my examples were extreme as fukk, but the point is that sometimes you just gotta stop thinking about it and just let shyt play out.

Almost every married couple I know is miserable or have gotten divorced. I've attended 12 weddings of friends over the years and 8 of them got divorced by their 4th year of marriage. Marriage is a dying institution and I have no desire to engage in that fukkery.