How are black men coddled and a protected group?

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I disagree that Black boys are coddled in school. Black kids go from being “cute kids” to just being Black around the age of 7 or 8, which is why I don’t believe in putting kids in school with too many white teachers during their formative years.

Black men aren’t coddled. I think the biggest issue has been Black men’s participation in the manisphere. I’m not sure who thought it was a good idea to publicly call out Black women under the guise of accountability. Because what happened is Black women clapped back hard, turned the mirror back to Black men’s failures, and the media loves nothing more than to highlight the failures and criticisms of Black men. It was like bringing a knife to a gun fight. Or winning a battle but losing the war. We have to keep our issues in house. But with social media that’s practically impossible.
How many black men are actually participating in the manosphere as opposed to not? I'm not sure who thought it was a good idea to take some black men saying shyt and think this is a good idea to use that as justification to attack all black men. In any case, all the shyt being put out there by black women is nothing remarkable since white supremacists have been saying the same shyt for literal decades. The only thing that really seemed to change is that some people now some conflate black women with white supremacy.

I'm not exactly sure what battle was won.
 

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Black woman posted a story about her son having possible mental illness:


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Seems to be something black feminists often repeat. Like the whole, "BLACK WOMEN ARE KILLED EVERY 4 MINUTES" bullshyt
Yup and using words like unalived, toe tagged and deleted.

I do know crime in our community is too high.
 

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Why do u feel that way? I feel the opposite.
I’ve traveled the world and seen how men truly at the bottom rung of their societies have to work to feed themselves

We have the best the world has to offer at the tip of our fingers and don’t appreciate it

Everyone has very low expectations for us and most of us die with the mentality of a child
 

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I disagree that Black boys are coddled in school. Black kids go from being “cute kids” to just being Black around the age of 7 or 8, which is why I don’t believe in putting kids in school with too many white teachers during their formative years.

Black men aren’t coddled. I think the biggest issue has been Black men’s participation in the manisphere. I’m not sure who thought it was a good idea to publicly call out Black women under the guise of accountability. Because what happened is Black women clapped back hard, turned the mirror back to Black men’s failures, and the media loves nothing more than to highlight the failures and criticisms of Black men. It was like bringing a knife to a gun fight. Or winning a battle but losing the war. We have to keep our issues in house. But with social media that’s practically impossible.
"Black men ain't shyt" was a saying way before the manosphere.

Can you explain that?
 

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Black woman posted a story about her son having possible mental illness:


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Seems to be something black feminists often repeat. Like the whole, "BLACK WOMEN ARE KILLED EVERY 4 MINUTES" bullshyt
 

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If you feel this way, and you're not planning to do anything about it, expect more of the same. As long as there are no repercussions for the things you have a problem with, it will continue.

Complaining to other members of the group isn't going to change one thing.
Well my solution to this problem is for us BM to do better, and check other BM for any degenerative behaviors that we do...especially those BM who are family members and friends/associates of ours. We need to repair our reputation. This includes the PAWG lovers on here because most of us pull low tier white women due to our reputation. Us BM need to improve our reputation. Sometimes we glorify and praise the wrong shyt and got our perspectives all fuked up. We don't have enough wealth, economies, etc in our communities and we need to be able to compete with other race men better. At least Asian men are trying to control a lot of shyt economically. We do need to do better....and especially with women and children of our race. Black boys need a good black male father figure in the home. Good black woman who want good black men should have that.

We also need a cultural change. We need to keep shyt in house. We love airing out our dirty laundry in the world. We also need to heavily support black owned businesses and have more safe spaces for our women and children.
 

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I see what u saying. But honestly I hate how us BM AS A COLLECTIVE give BM haters justification to use against us.

Those BM haters use statistics against us like crime rates, unemployment rates, education rates, absentee father rates, us killing men, women and children of our races and STD rates. It's sad and I just want us as BM to do better and be better as a collective. Also, we need to do better towards women and children of our race.

Sometimes I hate the shyt we have to deal with.
That's because you like many have bought into the lies that were spread by Black male haters which have gone unchallenged for decades.
 

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Come on man. How you spend a considerable amount of time on the internet, have 37k+ posts on a black website, and never heard of a divestor? Come on man. I don't get why some of you guys play dumb.
I think I asked what a divestor was on here before but I forgot what I was told. I’ve pretty sure it’s some battle of the sexes shyt or something. I usually don’t be in those threads
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I think I asked what a divestor was on here before but I forgot what I was told. I’ve pretty sure it’s some battle of the sexes shyt or something. I usually don’t be in those threads
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A divestor is a black woman who wants to "divest" from the black community and black men and dislike the toxicity of the black community. They also use terms like mammys and pick mes and blackastan. I get some of their points but a lot are extreme and have a deep hatred for black men and the black community as a whole. Some have views like white supremacists and racist white folks.
 

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Same way Hispanics are called lazy while simultaneously blamed for taking all the jobs. It's racism, it's supposed to be stupid and contradictory. We don't label it racism when it comes from black women but what else should it be called? When you say black men are hyper violent predators who are exterminating other groups of people...what are you really saying. When you say black men are struggling because they're too dumb to do xyz, what are you really saying? And this stuff is casually accepted as truth in various spaces. I'm not gonna say all, most, or even a "large" percentage of black women peddle this. But it's certainly noteworthy enough that the ones peddling it have media platforms or seats in academia.
 

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"Black men ain't shyt" was a saying way before the manosphere.

Can you explain that?
Black women can trash Black men and will be giving a larger platform to do so. Black men can trash Black men publicly as well. It’s not right. But it’s what it is. The only area where Black men get away with trashing Black women is Hip Hop. But it’s allowed because Black men also rap about killing each other. White media loves to tell tales of the failure of Black men.

And to whoever else quoted me (I can’t find it now for some reason). I mentioned the manisphere because it kinda jump started the current gender war of all races. But as we see, Black men have become the faces of it, as well as passport bros.

The manisphere would be the battle. Black men becoming the faces of toxic masculinity, colorism, broken families, etc is losing the war. We have to keep our issues in house.
 
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