Honestly, Swirling Is Overblown And A Myth

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Plus given the population, these white broads are going to make sure they can keep whatever Black man they can get their grasp on. That white bytch is gonna keep him to the best of her ability.

:ufdup: Now, THAT I never took into consideration. White bytches on tiktok, twitter, and shyt from cali do be choosing hard on brehs.

I mean if they gon do all that, the cali brehs need to have them put that energy into something useful, cuz we stay getting attacked left and right socially and economically, yet I never see keep that same energy for black men then.

Cali brehs, and brehs in general, need to judge them hoes on a negative curve and let em know they gonna have to come with more than some puss to keep our attention if they want it.


population numbers, structure of the city, increase of mexicans, the quiet and slow exodus of blacks leaving certain places they were concentrated in or west in general, etc.

This is how it is for us I would say in the west in general. Parts of LA and a few other areas are the exception.

Its more than just men and women crossed the desert and suddenly got a crave for some Becky and Brad.

dont get it twisted tho. I know it can be funny at times to take shots. but LA blacks mostly are with each other.

Yeah literally and figuratively it's apparent.

I also, think there's some cultural void there as well. LA is the only major city where aados are where they aren't the undisputed face of the local urban culture. They compete with Chicanos in that regard there.
 

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It depends on how big that 20% is of the black population versus just the married black population. I do agree that longterm things are gonna get increasingly ugly for us as black people when it comes to this. I'll go a step further and say that had it not been for the death of Trayvon Martin, Mike Brown, etc. things would already be much worse than they currently are. There's a thread on here that was started in like 2012 that asks black men if they would be okay with their daughter bringing home a white boy and the results were basically that they wouldn't care as long as she was happy. Fast forward a couple years and the sentiment on this board had changed drastically. We as a people are lulled into complacency and a false belief in a post-racist society very easily and it'll keep happening as time goes on and as BM get weaker and weaker as it pertains to any semblance of racial pride or preservation and as our lack of sexual discipline and ambivalence toward being fetishized increases. As a result more BW will become more open to other races and/or lesbianism and shyt will get spooky for our people. We'll never die out as a people but the definition of what is considered black will continue to get diluted similar to what happened to the Native Americans.


All got to say is Florida shocked me with amount of white girls with black dudes even in stick towns.
 

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I swear my parents are the only black married couple up here but we came up from Chicago where I saw nothing but black couples throughout the neighborhood. It's a culture shock for me.

It's not for a lack of diversity, St. Paul is less than 50% white and Minneapolis is getting there as cacs keep leaving for the suburbs.

It's only in Minnesota that black women don't fw me, in Milwaukee Chicago and Indianapolis I never have problems pulling a black woman.
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Minnesota is just weird. A few black women have specifically told me they don't fw Chicago nikkas
 

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I swear my parents are the only black married couple up here but we came up from Chicago where I saw nothing but black couples throughout the neighborhood. It's a culture shock for me.

It's not for a lack of diversity, St. Paul is less than 50% white and Minneapolis is getting there as cacs keep leaving for the suburbs.

It's only in Minnesota that black women don't fw me, in Milwaukee Chicago and Indianapolis I never have problems pulling a black woman.
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Minnesota is just weird
How’s the nightlife?
 

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So, black houstonians have one of the lowest rates of ir marriage in the country regardless if you compare us to other blacks or non-blacks in large metros. :ohhh:

@Southside Swangin @King Jove @HTXBreh @Petty Crocker @Mike_Pipeson @FreddyCalhoun @AStrangeName

And we're in the so called "most diverse city"(not really true but lets go with it) full of transplants and a shyt load of 1st and 2nd gen immigrants too. I guess we just ain't impressed by non-blacks like a lot of y'all in other cities are. :manny:
I wouldn't say that it's just Houston, but the south in general as we don't put non-blacks on the pedestal at all and stay among ourselves. Despite my background (African American and Afro Dominican), I've been with mostly black women and they're the ones who also approach me as well, but I would also say it's different with my generation. As we grow up among ourselves, we don't really have an issue with ir dating unless you on some c00n or wench shyt. Thou with our people I agree with when we see a breh with a white girl, unless she is a baddie he's going to get judged harshly thou that's in general with other races as most date down when ir dating as oppose of getting one on their level.

However, from what I've seen and know from experience when it comes to ir dating, brehs and brehettes always date down when it's caucasian, but with other races it's different. I've seen a breh with a middle eastern girl and she was :whoo: and other with asians and hispanics. Overall, swirling is overblown and people date their own race in the end.
 

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Asians had the higher percentage of ir marriage
PHX >> LA:ufdup:

yall cant say anything about PHX ever, the amount of times i heard you LA transplants talk your shyt about us dating out:hhh:

:ufdup: Now, THAT I never took into consideration. White bytches on tiktok, twitter, and shyt from cali do be choosing hard on brehs.

I mean if they gon do all that, the cali brehs need to have them put that energy into something useful, cuz we stay getting attacked left and right socially and economically, yet I never see keep that same energy for black men then.

Cali brehs, and brehs in general, need to judge them hoes on a negative curve and let em know they gonna have to come with more than some puss to keep our attention if they want it.

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yeah altho im not sure if LA WW have the same sentiments as AZ ones

Im basing my observation on AZ, here WW that have interest in BM go on a pursuit for them if they want them or at the least let themselves be easy to crack.. <--- This plus the easiyness to them(easy to smash, etc). Is what can lure a BM here to fw them heavy

Its not that they arent interested in BW, its just given their experiences sometimes a breh here in AZ will lean more toward white girls because of suff like this.
Yeah literally and figuratively it's apparent.

I also, think there's some cultural void there as well. LA is the only major city where aados are where they aren't the undisputed face of the local urban culture. They compete with Chicanos in that regard there.
idk bout that but i would say that LA has more than just a Black urban face, it has mutiple. Black culture is still the biggest culture for the urban world in LA IMO. and I think LAers like @til november might cosign me on that.
 
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So, black houstonians have one of the lowest rates of ir marriage in the country regardless if you compare us to other blacks or non-blacks in large metros. :ohhh:

@Southside Swangin @King Jove @HTXBreh @Petty Crocker @Mike_Pipeson @FreddyCalhoun @AStrangeName

And we're in the so called "most diverse city"(not really true but lets go with it) full of transplants and a shyt load of 1st and 2nd gen immigrants too. I guess we just ain't impressed by non-blacks like a lot of y'all in other cities are. :manny:


breh when i got up to seattle/tacoma... it took me a month to even see a full fledge black family...

its so many bizzy bone lookin kids up here...seem like nikkas either got a samoan asian or a bunny ...n its some nice lookin black women up here...
 

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breh when i got up to seattle/tacoma... it took me a month to even see a full fledge black family...

its so many bizzy bone lookin kids up here...seem like nikkas either got a samoan asian or a bunny ...n its some nice lookin black women up here...

I mean hey, those women might be taken. Plus how do you know they fw Black men? Just as there are pawgers in a city there are swirlers.

I hope some of yall dont seriously think its just BM out there and here in western cities swirling. These BW do the same thing to. The climate however is always focused on what BM do tho


Minneapolis and Saint Paul
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I swear my parents are the only black married couple up here but we came up from Chicago where I saw nothing but black couples throughout the neighborhood. It's a culture shock for me.

It's not for a lack of diversity, St. Paul is less than 50% white and Minneapolis is getting there as cacs keep leaving for the suburbs.

It's only in Minnesota that black women don't fw me, in Milwaukee Chicago and Indianapolis I never have problems pulling a black woman.
:francis:

Minnesota is just weird. A few black women have specifically told me they don't fw Chicago nikkas
Alot of Minnesota is nonados I heard, and alot of Nonados women x Nonblack/white men

thats their life, plus they aint ADOS so thats def not of our business:yeshrug:
 
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