I am 30 years old, and I am still not in the double digits of how many men I've slept with. (I'm married now)
However, I can say that I DID have a "hoe phase", but I did NOT have sex.
I know that doesn't really make sense, but let me explain...
I spoke about this in a thread when I first joined you guys. I used to be overweight. When I was in HS I had a long time boyfriend & was pretty popular (Even though I was fat). So, I didn't deal with too many guys.
Fast forward, In my early 20s I lost a lot of weight, and nikkas started coming at me like gangbusters. Lol I couldn't even tell when men were flirting with me. Guys I used to like came back with a vengeance, and dudes I was around my whole life who ignored me were joking me.
They would stare. Rush to hold doors open for me. Given me extra condiments in my food bag at restaurants. Everything. Everything was different.It was crazy!
(BTW: any woman or man that says men don't treat you different because of your looks is lying, or doesn't know better. But I digress...)
During this time... I did a significant amount of dating. Trying to weigh out my options. Get to know new people. Although I dated a lot, I didn't have sex with these men, because I have to be in love/emotionally attached (that's just me. I don't judge women who don't) My trouble was the better looking I had become, the more shallow men I attracted. I hate shallow men. So it was a struggle.
I look back on that time like a "hoe phase", only cause I had multiple men calling my phone at once asking me out.
During that time period there was only ONE man getting sex from me. He was the one I really liked. Unfortunately, he caught a case & got locked up.