"Hoe Phase" Issa Rae on The Breakfast Club

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Never understood that narrative. It comes from hoes who try and say it's normal to justify themselves. A woman having casual sex is not a hoe. And that's what people try to make into a hoe phase. There really is no such thing. If you are a hoe, you're a hoe. Simple. Just because you are now in a position where sucking multiple dikks a weak is not an option does not mean you are no longer a hoe. Your situation just changed.

Imagine if your homeboy said he had a phase in college where he was letting nikkas blow his back out but it's over because that was "just a phase".... :mjpls:
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:mjlol:All women don't have hoe phases. There's simply bytches that's hoes and regular chicks who actually value their bodies and who they sleep with.

The more these bytches keep up with that hoe phase narrative the worse it's gonna be for them. Cause nikkas ain't wifing hoes or bytches who been in a hoe phase

Most women do.


And this second bolded is a gatdamn lie :mjlol:
 

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I am 30 years old, and I am still not in the double digits of how many men I've slept with. (I'm married now)

However, I can say that I DID have a "hoe phase", but I did NOT have sex.:patrice:I know that doesn't really make sense, but let me explain...

I spoke about this in a thread when I first joined you guys. I used to be overweight. When I was in HS I had a long time boyfriend & was pretty popular (Even though I was fat). So, I didn't deal with too many guys. :yeshrug:

Fast forward, In my early 20s I lost a lot of weight, and nikkas started coming at me like gangbusters. Lol I couldn't even tell when men were flirting with me. Guys I used to like came back with a vengeance, and dudes I was around my whole life who ignored me were joking me. :cape: They would stare. Rush to hold doors open for me. Given me extra condiments in my food bag at restaurants. Everything. Everything was different.It was crazy! :whoa:

(BTW: any woman or man that says men don't treat you different because of your looks is lying, or doesn't know better. But I digress...)


During this time... I did a significant amount of dating. Trying to weigh out my options. Get to know new people. Although I dated a lot, I didn't have sex with these men, because I have to be in love/emotionally attached (that's just me. I don't judge women who don't) My trouble was the better looking I had become, the more shallow men I attracted. I hate shallow men. So it was a struggle.


I look back on that time like a "hoe phase", only cause I had multiple men calling my phone at once asking me out.

During that time period there was only ONE man getting sex from me. He was the one I really liked. Unfortunately, he caught a case & got locked up. :mjcry:

That's not a hoe phase, just exercising your options by going on dates. I've done it plenty. How will you know who you're compatible with if you don't actually date?
 
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