having lunch with the toronto woman who's serial datinf for pricey meals

[Chelsea Bridge]

Remember what I always say, never pay for a first date.

This is what women of today do, smile in your face, laugh giggle while your paying for that steak and fillet mignon, getting a hug and a
text me later.

Any man who pays for an expensive meal on the first date deserves whatever he gets.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Can't knock her hustle. Got a job and a funny blog out of dudes that like to pay for diners with their first dates.

 

[Turbulent]

can't knock her hustle. dudes just need to learn not to feed them for free.

How do you make clear that you won’t be paying?

I wouldn’t reach for my wallet or I would just go to the bathroom. It’s never been too long that I’ve had to wait in an awkward silence.

How do you navigate it if he wants to go Dutch?

I’ve not had to.

So there remains an expectation that the man pays.

Some girls say, “Even if I liked him I wouldn’t give him a chance if he didn’t pay.” It’s definitely interesting. If I was dating beyond this blog, I wouldn’t necessarily expect it but I think it would be kind of nice on the first date. It shows that they’re not cheap, and just willing to put forth a nice gesture.

see what i'm talking about? dudes are scared of awkwardness and pay to avoid it. she has figured that out and uses it as a weapon. not only are you losing money but now the chick thinks you can easily manipulated with awkwardness so she sees you as less attractive/weak. Nothing wrong with paying on a first date. but never do it because of awkwardness or because you're pressured into it.

also, notice the subtle shaming tactics "it shows he's not cheap". don't fall for the hype brehs. stop worrying about what they think of you and follow your principles.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Any man who pays for an expensive meal on the first date deserves whatever he gets.

This is true. She didn't fool them. They were willing to pay. They could tell her at the table that they are splitting it. If that's how they want to role. Fool me once ..........

 

[Desirous]

Well, she's not holding a gun to these guys as they're reaching for their pockets.

She's a bytch for taking advantage of them though, but some guys use women all the time also.

 

[Capo Dei Capi]

This bytch been ran through

 

[ebonykiss]

She's attracting dudes off her blog too dudes still want to take her out knowing that all she wants is a free meal lol

 

[Turbulent]

She's attracting dudes off her blog too dudes still want to take her out knowing that all she wants is a free meal lol

naw, they just want the glory of being the dude to make her suck their dikk and then toss her aside (and then maybe blog about it).

same way some women want to tame the bad boy.

 

[jdubnyce]

is she a pawg?

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

is she a pawg?

She's not ugly

 

[Lana Kane]

is she a pawg?

She's a blonde, hipster chick

 

[↓R↑LYB]

This is what I always suggest but they prefer going out for food.
I'd be fine with an ice cream cone or hot chocolate or street meat. Oh well.

word?

 

[Lana Kane]

word

give me a foot long and ill be good

 

[↓R↑LYB]

give me a foot long and ill be good

We gotta sale on dark meat right now

 

[Chris.B]

First date is always on me....second and beyond we split.

If first date goes south...that ends in a split bill as well.
I remember this chick I went on a date with, the date went south pretty quickly because I wanted her to calm down a little bit when she is talking and she took offense.

I asked for two bills paid mine + tip and bounced....bytch looking at me like